The Barkley Family

Our little Mollie Dog

2010-06-30T08:03:00.000-07:00

Mollie is turning out to be a really good doggie. She is doing great! Mollie loves playing in the water. Who ever thought that pugs liked water.. but she does. She loves her baths, showers and especially the sprinklers. She loves her Daddy and loves to snuggle and hog his side of the bed, thank goodness. During the day she is following me around at my feet whether I am sitting at my computer, where she has her bed under the desk, or walking around the house doing chores. She loves PB and Tiger and once in a while they play chase and the kitties are not the only ones who get a turn. All in all shes a keeper.. We love our Mollie Dog!

The Newest Member of the National Junior Honor Society

2010-06-29T09:12:00.000-07:00

The end of May Emily was inducted into the National Junior Honor Society. Of the 200 7th Graders, 30 where chosen to fill the graduating 8th grader spots this upcoming year. The selected students were chosen not only because of their high GPA but also based on their service, leadership, citizenship and character.

The symbol of the torch represents the motto

"Light is the Symbol of Truth"

THE NJHS PLEDGE:

I pledge myself to uphold

The high purpose of the National Honor Society

To which I have been selected.

By word and deed

To make its ideals

The ideals of my school

And of my life.

We are very proud of her and the goals that she sets for herself. She understands that it takes hard work and lots of determination to be the person she want to be and has no problem with that.

Great Job Emily!!

May Spring Performance

2010-06-24T21:44:00.000-07:00

I know I am a little behind in my postings. A month or so ago Emily had her spring recital. Its always fun to watch the kids dance and see how much they have learned over the year. Not much to say about the performance except, WOW, they are getting really good.. Below is a picture of the kids in the group. We have 39 dancers this last term which is fantastic!!

What is Fshion?

2010-06-23T12:35:00.000-07:00

I can hardly get over the fact that July is almost here. Where does time go, I mean really.. come on. If I only had a few more hours in a day I could really be accomplished!! Right now my life is consumed with Irish Dance. I don't mind because it is what Emily loves to do. I can never seem to get her to stop "bopping" around.

In May her teacher spent the night for a Saturday workshop. Emily and her new bestest friend Jazmin decided that they were going to have a "fashion show" - mind you, it was very late at night and the girls were extremly silly. Lauren is such a kid at heart and a good sport :)

Give a little here and Give a little there

2010-05-19T10:46:00.000-07:00

Some days I wish to say "Oh, I'm sorry I can't", "No", "Let me check my schedule" or "I'm just way to busy today, Sorry".. I honestly wish I could. I don't mind helping out but I am at my wits end. Between Work, Domestic Engineering, Being Irish Dance President, Teaching on Sunday, trying to keep the house somewhat cleaned and keeping up with the needs of the kids and the husband (nevermind myself) I can not get enough done in the time I want to do it.
I know this too will pass and someday when the kids are out of the house, I will wish that I could do more. So I need to just suck it up and go with the flow... It will all work out just fine. Really it will. Baby Steps...

MJ Turns 12

2010-05-04T10:37:00.000-07:00

MJ turned 12 this year and has been a very special time for him. . Let me tell you, I have never seen someone so excited to turn 12 in my life. I think he is excited for several reasons; MJ is no longer in primary, MJ is in Mutual now with the “big kids”. At 12 MJ has been interviewed and found worthy to receive the Aaronic Priesthood and takes this privilege seriously. He is excited to pass the sacrament and collect fast offerings.
This last Sunday, as a mom, I sat and watched my little boy start his journey as a young man. He has grown so much this past year.
After passing sacrament, he sat back with the family and since it was Fast Sunday I could see it in MJ’s eyes his desire to bear his testimony. And then it started…. Mom I’ll bear my testimony if you go and bear yours... Come on Mom… Come on. I replied, “No, you go first, then I’ll go…” And then the conversation would start over and over again. Being the brave mom I am, I broke down and sat at the front pew for my turn. As I am waiting, MJ came up from behind and said, “The deals off”. I proceeded to go up and bear my testimony and came back and sat by MJ. He says, “I changed my mind”. I could see how nervous he was and wanted so much to go up. So now it was my turn… “Mark, if you go up you can have all the money out of my wallet”. “How much money is in your wallet?” That went around a few times too. Finally I said, “If you’re going to go you better hurry, sacrament is almost over”. He FINALLY went up. My first thought was, on no, he’s going to be silly. But he wasn’t. I was so proud to watch him. His testimony was beautiful. He spoke from his heart of the love he has for the scriptures, the Gospel and his Father in Heaven.
What a wonderful start to growing into a young man. He’s going to be a great missionary. It brings tears to my eyes as I watched. MJ has always been a joy in our lives and is a great example to us and those around him. I am very proud of the young man he is becoming and I am excited for his future. I Love you MJ! You’re the Best!!

Moosie Goosie

2010-04-19T13:01:00.000-07:00

The weekend of March 26th we returned Moose to his original owners. Unfortunately, it needed to be done. Moosie was a handful for us and with the busy schedule the last 3 months he was not getting the attention that he needed. Let me tell you, it was hard and I cryed for a week. Out of the two, Moose and Mollie, Moose was my favorite. He is smart and sneeky; a big clown with lots and lots of energy.
Below is a picture of his new family, Caseys sister Debbie. So he's not too far away. She has acreage in the country with grandkids. he has lots of room to run and play and a family who will give him lots and lots of attenton that he deserves. Doesn't he look soo happy!! I'm thankful he has a good home. We Love you Moosie Goosie!!

MARCH 2010

2010-04-19T12:26:00.000-07:00

March was another continuation of a busy February.
March 6th & 7th we headed to Seattle for the Pacific NW Championship Feis. Emily’s Irish dancing is going great. She moved several of her dances into Novice despite the fact that she was a bug. She wore her school dress for the first time and looked marvelous. I am proud of the hard work she puts in and is seeing the results.

The following weekend was a blur….Practice, practice, practice, practice……Perform. The 13th we performed at the Desert Thistle Pipe Band concert as one of several guest performers. On the 14th we performed at the Toyota Center. The “Kaleidoscope in Motion 2010”. “More than 700 people attended the second annual Kaleidoscope in Motion show at the Toyota Center in Kennewick on March 14, 2010. The show featured performances from An Daire Academy of Irish Dance, Mid-Columbia Ballet and the Tri-Cities Figure Skating Club” (Tri-City Herald). It was spectacular!! We have such a great group of Irish dancers. Emily you were AWESOME!!

St. Patrick’s Day week was crazy. The Irish dancers performed once Monday, once Tuesday, and 4 times on St. Patty’s Day. Wow, That was a lot!! But fun.

The weekend of the 20th we went into Portland. My Brother, Eric was moving to Colima, Mexico and had a going away party with family and friends. It was fun to meet V’s family and sad to see Eric moving so far away. I will miss the comfort of having him so close. It’s a good thing that we work together because if I need too I can just push a button and he’s right there. Ahh, technology!!

The 28th was Mj’s Birthday but I’ll write more about that later.

FEBRUARY 2010

2010-04-12T18:40:00.000-07:00

February was an extremely busy month! In fact the busyness started the middle of January when Stephanie announced that she was getting married and getting married quickly. In fact she was getting married February 27th…THIS YEAR!

So let me tell you … between, wedding planning, Stephanie moving out, wedding showers, Angelas birthday, Dentist appointments, running Emily to dance practice and performances here and there, board meetings AND becoming the President of the Tri-Cities Irish dance, I was just a little stressed out… Just a little... Thank you Lori for making my life easier in February!!

Here are a few highlights…

On the 13th the girls and I, Jordan too, went into Portland. We had a list of things to do… and only a number of hours to get it done including the 8 hours of driving time… My brother was moving to Mexico and had some furniture and a car to sell and sold it to Steph, met with Jimmy to talk about flowers, get the u-haul and attended the bridal shower.

Her Aunts, Stefani and Dana, threw her a beautiful shower.

On the 19th her sisters and Grandma Widing from Portland threw Stephanie a bridal shower for her friends and sisters in the Lakes and Candy Mountain wards. The girls did a great job planning games and decorations. I was so excited. Only 1 person showed. A handful of sisters called or stopped by for a few. We had fun anyways..

The week of the 22nd… Soo much to do! We made Angela and Emily a dress and finished up the flower vases and food planning for the wedding. Friday night Angela had her B-day party at Atomic Bowl. It’s a good thing Lori was here because I plainly lost if Friday. She kept everything in order, Thank you!

On the 27th, Stephanie and Jordan were married. It was a bitter sweet day. Stephanie was beautiful and extremely happy! I am thankful for the time I had with Stephanie and wish I had more time with her. The last few years have been difficult for us and although I am not overjoyed with her getting married I know our Heavenly Father has a plan for my little one and I put my faith and trust in him, that life for her will work out the way they plan. A mother’s job is never easy, especially when giving your daughter away. Mamma loves you June Bug...

Christmas 2009 ~ Part 1

2010-02-17T16:26:00.000-08:00

Christmas 2009, was the best ever for several reasons. For the last few years we have had a tradition of feeding the homeless in Albany, Oregon. It’s something the kids love to do and for the last 4 years they have given up their Christmas to make someone else’s better. We love the people and the shelter. Unfortunately, this last year the shelter had a few changes and a week before we were to leave, things fell through. So, we thought... We will find a new shelter, somewhere closer to home for next year and just go skiing for a few days. Going skiing has also been part of the Christmas tradition, up to Hoodoo for a week in the snow is our Christmas present to the family. Its funneristedly!!

Well… that didn’t work out either, Stephanie couldn’t get time off work and we knew this would be the last Christmas we had with her before she was off doing her own thing. So… we decided the week before Christmas that we would stay home. It was awful. It just didn’t feel like Christmas. We had no tree, no shopping done for the kids, no decorations up, and no shelter to feed, need I say more…

Sunday, Mark and I decided that we would try to make it a Christmas season and Monday, after work, he would stop by and get a tree to surprise the kids, he did, in the pouring down rain (it hardly ever rains here). As the tree stood in the garage overnight, drying out, we put up a few decorations. Tuesday, we put the lights on the tree and by Wednesday, Emily had the tree decorated (to surprise us). The Tree was decorated beautifully.

Tuesday, I had a brilliant idea… I’ll go get a few presents for under the tree on Christmas morning… (We had told the kids since we decided to stay home at the last minute and not go to Albany or Hoodoo, we hadn’t had any time to shop for Christmas so there wouldn’t be presents under the tree). So after the kids were in bed, or off doing their thing, I went shopping Tuesday and Wednesday night in the wee hours of the morning. Shopping was a nightmare! Every great idea I thought of getting for the kids, stores were out. Eventually, I finished and was happy, to my surprise, at the presents I had bought.

Thursday, Christmas Eve, I had told the kids I was sick. I hibernated in my bedroom, watching movies, so they couldn’t hear me wrap presents. Sneaky I was… I was determined not to reveal the real reason I was in my room, all day long. It was a success and wasn’t until 4 in the morning that Angie was awake and heard someone walking around. I told her it must have been Santa!

So we fed the shelter (see part 2 for details) and headed home. I insisted with much resistance to have the kids help me make Santa his favorite Chocolate Chip Cookies. Did they help? NO. They just laughed at me; they wouldn’t even write Santa a letter. I insisted that Santa was coming tonight. In reply I got the wink, wink sure mom.

So As I am trying to get the kids to bed, I went into Emily’s room to tuck her in and give her a kiss. MJ was hiding in the closet and both were being giggly. I looked into Emily’s closet and found some wrapped presents. “ Ahh, Emily you didn’t need to do that,” I said. “When did you have time to go shopping?” She just smiled. And off to bed I went. Emily on the other had stayed up so she could put her “surprise” presents under the tree so we would have something to unwrap for Christmas (remember, we were not going to have presents this year, mom didn’t have time to shop).

So, at 4am Mark and I filled the stockings and put the “Santa” presents under the tree (not many, but enough), went back to bed and woke up a few hours later. It was kind of sad that the kids didn’t come in to snuggle or jump on the bed and wake us up like they used to. When I walked into the room and saw the presents, I said, in a louder voice than normal…”Santa was here, Santa was here!” “Santa brought us presents.” The kids wondered where the presents came from. Umm, I kept my mouth shut.

Mark Cooked Breakfast and blessed the food. During the prayer Mark asked for Grandma and Grandpa to have a safe drive. So, I told the kids that grandma and grandpa had to get here really early and leave so they could deliver other presents. They bought that for a while and thought no, that’s not the right answer they were looking for. I kept them questioning.
After breakfast we opened presents. Emily wanted us to open hers first. We were all so excited. The funny thing is that she searched around the house finding things to wrap so we would have presents under the tree. As you can see it was quite the entertainment – pictures below.

That day we learned that it’s not what’s in the present that matters, but the excitement of being together as a family and the love we share. We haven’t had Christmas at home for years and it was wonderful. So as Pastor Bailey stated (he was over the shelter in Albany before his stroke), “you don’t always understand why things happen the way they do, but, you may be needed elsewhere, God has a plan, we just need to have faith.” I believe that. Had we followed tradition we would not have had the experiences we did this Christmas of finding joy in service, love and our families. We really needed to be at home. Thank you Heavenly Father for watching out for our family and putting us where we needed.

Christmas 2009 ~ Part 2

2010-02-17T16:24:00.000-08:00

So here is the great thing about this Christmas… Monday I started calling, the Union Gospel Mission, a homeless shelter here in the area. Sad news was that they had all the helpers they needed and didn’t need any more. I told him the story of how this is the only thing the kids really wanted for Christmas and it wouldn’t be Christmas without helping the shelter. They said they would call me back. I hadn’t heard, so I called again and spoke with the gentleman in charge of the dinners. He said, “be there at 4:30 Christmas Eve.” GREAT!! Now it will feel like Christmas.

Hoping that we would be able to feed the shelter and not get put in the back washing dishes, we were a little nervous not knowing what to expect. It was awesome!! When we arrived we were given instructions of what we’ll be doing and a prayer was given by Eric, the person in charge. In the prayer he had asked that our hearts would be opened and receptive and that we would see the face of God in those who we were about to serve. Tears came to my eyes; a blessing was given for us, not them. The prayer ended and MJ said, “Now that was a good prayer!” I have never felt so loved, so humbled.

We paired up, two to a table, and fed the homeless. We served them as they sat and waited for us to get them food. We offered coffee, salad, dinner and dessert. At our table (mine and Emily’s) three of the guys took their time eating (I think they just like to be inside where it was warm and dry), we talked to them and knew them by names and after we were done serving, we had the opportunity to eat dinner (rolls, green bean casserole, sweet potatoes, scalloped potatoes and I think, smoked turkey or pork) with them. I felt prompted, as other helpers sat by at their own tables, to sit with those I served, Emily was hesitant, but followed the lead. Soon, Mark joined us. I was humbled, over and over, listening to them talk and the stories they had to share.

Maurice was funny. He had a French/Jamaican accent. He received a pair of new jeans and shirt for Christmas and carried a backpack. He had been in the states for 10 years. Very smart and spoke with Mark about engineering details. Alex was quite but loved pumpkin pie.

Derrick was from Kentucky, a drifter since he was 18. He’s lived all over the country. He recently wanted to settle down and get a job. He stopped drinking a while ago and was ready to make a change. He had been trying to get his identification but had been unsuccessful because that took money of which he did not have. It was thanksgiving here at the shelter when a couple met him and gave funds to the director towards getting a birth certificate to get his ID. That had been his saving grace, his new chance at life. I sat there thinking how many others want to get out of the homeless situation but can’t because they have no funds to get ID, or don’t know where they were born. He said he knew of someone who had been trying to get ID for years.

On our way out there was a little old colored lady, probably in her late 70’s. She was so sweet and so happy. She told us that she’s old but is not afraid to die that there was a mansion in the heavens for her. I believe it. She had been coming to the shelter since she was 55. As I watched her put food into her bag, I wondered if she had any family. Who was going to take care of her? Her faith in believing where she was going strengthened my belief and I knew too. For are we not all brothers and sisters she said. You babies have smiles of an angle and we hugged her, smiled and said good-bye.

I held my emotions until I got to the car, and then I cried. I was so blessed that night. I saw the face of God in these people, my brothers and sisters. I saw them in equal conditions and to me they were the angels that night.

Tis the Season

2010-01-26T11:20:00.000-08:00

Time to update my blog and profile for 2010.. I have many moods this year. I wonder what it will end up like.. I guess you will have to wait and see. Smiles for now!

Big Update

2009-12-14T15:33:00.000-08:00

I am so glad to say that the last few months are officially behind us. It has been extremely busy with Football, Volleyball, School concerts, Feiseannas, Cake decorating class, Dance classes, Costume making for dance performance, Dance performances, Trip to Spokane, Christmas tree fundraiser, and every day things. Oh and I took a few (12 credits) college classes.. Umm, I wonder if I missed anything.. Below is only a few of the highlights.. Enjoy!

Feile Samhain - 2009

2009-12-14T14:39:00.000-08:00

Halloween weekend Emily had a Feis in Portland and did super. She took home several medals, a trophy and a new wig. Feile Samhain is an An Daire Feis put on by Emilys teachers and has a halloween theme. A Feis is a competition for all the dancers in the area including California, Alaska, Utah and Montana. In order for any dancer to move up in their level of dance they must place;
* A Beginner needs a 1st,2nd, or 3rd to move up to Advanced Beginner
* An Advance Beginner needs a 1st or 2nd to move up into Novice;
* A novice dancer needs a 1st in order to move into Prizewinner
* and then there are two more levels after that.
Emily did a great job! Emily danced 8 dances. She started out as a Beginner and moved into several Advance Beginner dances and 1 Novice dance and brought home 3 first place medals, 4 second place medals and 1 third place trophy. Her teachers say that she has lots of potential to go far. As long as shes having fun I don't mind. We can hardly wait for Seattle in March!! A few pictures from the Feis..

Oh No!!

2009-12-14T14:14:00.000-08:00

Poor Angie Pangie. A few weeks back Angela decided that she would hop over the doggie gate. It was more like a hop/jump/leap in slow motion. I herd the gate crash and fall (to pieces I might say) but no crying or yelling. I quickly got over to her to find out what happened. She seemed to be in the worst pain ever. I tried to calm her down and we layed her on the floor. I swear she broke her ankle and Mark thought she just had a sprain. Me being the mom of course insisted that she go in to be checked. The hospital was empty and we got in and out in no time. Mark of course was right, just a severe sprain. The doctor gave her some pain meds, crutches and sent her home with a wrapped ankle. Angie discovered that hurdles were not in her future and that next time she should try pole vaulting.

Lion King

2009-12-14T12:55:00.000-08:00

A month or so ago Emily's school (music dept) had announced they were going on a field trip to Spokane to see ~ Disney's Lion King on Broadway. Emily almost didn't bring home the announcement, she thought "oh, mom would never want to go." Its a good thing she brought the slip home, I have always wanted to see Lion King - Broadway. So Emily, Angela and I got all dressed-up and took a little trip to Spokane. We followed the bus so we could have some needed girl time. It was a very nice drive. We ate lunch and went to the theater.
Never in my wildest dreams would I love such a production. It was absoutly amazing. During the opening of the program I was in such awe to the beautiful things that we can do with our voices, our bodies and the talents of those who perform. I looked at the girls and we all had tears in our eyes. Had I known to bring the tissue I would have brought lots. So if you ever get a chance to go, go - even the little ones would sit still.
I love spending time with my girls and am thankful everyday that I was blessed with three. I am excited to spend more time with them before they are off and having their own lives. Time goes so quickly. Love you girls and thanks for letting me be your mom!

Emily Turned "13"

2009-12-14T12:12:00.000-08:00

Emily is officially a teenager! WOW "13" ! I can hardly believe it. For her Birthday we took her to "Birthday Dinner" which she chose Red Robins; where she had unlimited Raspberry lemonade splash and a burger. Afterwards they sung to her (I think that's her favorite part). For her birthday I made her her favorite cake ~ Pumpkin cake with cream cheese frosting, yummy, I forgot the candles so we used two big ones! Happy Birthday Emily! I am so proud of you and the young woman you are becoming. Keep up the Violin and Irish dance. You are awesome! We love you very much!

Cake Decorating Class

2009-12-14T12:03:00.000-08:00

It has been a wild ride the last few months and I am starting to get caught up.
This last month Stephanie, Angela and I took a cake deorcating class. Was lots of fun and lots of getting prepared for class work. We learned how to make really good frosting, a few flowers, leaves and roses. I can't wait till the next class and of course until then...I'll keep practicing how to make roses.
Oh, and Mollie loves the frosting.. What a moocher.

MJ Ended the Season

2009-12-14T11:30:00.000-08:00

Football season is over and MJ had a great time. The Panthers B team ended the season going to the "SuperBowl" with an 8-0 record. They did a fantastic job working as a team and playing fair. Unfortunately, they lost the superbowl and after reviewing the plays was a great game. Panthers were proud to be there win or loss. Heres a few pics from the 2009 season.

Volleyball 2009

2009-11-11T09:56:00.000-08:00

Emily this year played Volleyball. Her team did not do so well but they had a lot of fun and she made some good friends. She is excited for VB this next year and wants to take a few VB training camps. Personally, half the problem with the team is that there is a no-cut policy which allows anyone and everyone who wants to play, play. Well I don't like that. That is not how life is. You work hard and then you can play hard. Some of the girls just stood around which makes mom like me scream from the bleachers.. Yes, I did..If you want to play, be aggressive and play.. Don't just let the ball land in front of you, you've got to move your feet, and get that ball!! The coach was terrible. She just sat on the sideline while the team got behind 10 points. OH how I wanted to step in and pull players. Anyway, enough of my rant..
Emily will play again next year, She is very excited to keep playing. She learned and lot and has a lot to learn. I am very proud of her trying something new. Keep up the good work Emily!!

MJ Playing Football

2009-09-28T19:15:00.000-07:00

This last few months MJ has been playing and Loving football. Day in and day out he goes to practice and never whined about going, whether it was hot at 104 degrees or cold at 32 degrees, MJ always gives it his all. This season has been good to the Panthers B team and are 7-0 ranked 2nd with only 13 PA (points against) in their league after the # 1 Prosser Stallions who are 6-0 with 6 PA.
MJ has been playing many positions; safety, nose guard, right tight end, left tackle, running back, front line return team, kick-off line, punter and kicker. As you can see he is pretty much on the field most of the game. Even when he dislocated his thumb at the beginning of the season he still wanted to continue and play hard. Coach says hes really good for never playing organized football and I know his dad is proud of him. We are excited to see what he will do next year on whether he plays school or Grid football. I vote he plays grid one more year - and we will feed him lots of fruits, veggies and protein so he can grow big!!
Great Job MJ and Good Luck in the Playoffs!!

Big Daddy turns "24"

2009-09-28T18:33:00.000-07:00

I know this is a little late but it was Mark's birthday last week. Yes 24 not 42. With so many things going on and all of us running different directions we opted out for a simple birthday. While I was with Emily at dance and Mark was with MJ at Football practice Angela was at home baking a cake. She went all out and her efforts were 150%. This is a picture of the cake Angela was making, and almost turned out perfectly, till..

The cupcakes fell on the floor.

I got a call and Angie, was in tears. "Can't you just buy a cake?" , she asked. I said, "No, it will be fine. Dad will understand, its the effort that counts and no one will know it fell on the floor except us (lol)". She was very much upset. In the end we all got a good laugh and the cake was moist and yummy. I was actually amazed at how well she did, I know I probablly couldn't make a cake that well. The Colors were almost perfectly matching. What they probablly didn't say in the instructions that there were toothpicks keeping those cupcakes together.

So we had a good time together as a family and went to Tony Romas for dinner.

Ahh.. Fall

2009-09-16T07:04:00.000-07:00

I just love the Fall season. I love the colors and the fresh crisp air in the morning. The smells of fires burning and the blue blue sky. Fall brings a sense of renewal for me.
I love the peace and quiet that I have some alone time which includes having time to quietly fold my laundry and pick up around the house. Its amazing how much extra time we have when we are not bickering and complaining about just getting it done.
I love the burst of energy I have to get things done like the yard and cleaning the garage (as soon as Mark is off hunting), putting up TP and Towel holders.. doing the little touch-ups..
I love to sew and finish up my UFO's (unfinished objects). My quilt needs to get done this year, I hope. and I get to sew Angela a Homecoming dress with my new surger and Sewing maching that a wonderful person let me borrow.
I love going back to school, all the kids are in school now and we are down to just 2 schools and no more elementary.. YEAH.. Im a Big Kid now! Its been fun getting up early and taking care of the kids lunches and making sure they have enough kisses to get them through the day.
I love excitement of watching our kids play sports. MJ loves Football and has practice almost everyday for a couple hours (even in the 100 degree weather). Emily is doing Volleyball and Irish Dance. Between the two she is going, going and going. And Dad Loves Watching Football on TV.
I love General Conference and being spiritually recharged. This is my most favorite. I love listening to the Prophet speak the words we need to hear. The messages the counselors and Apostles give us. Conference fills my heart with love and graditude for what I have to be thankful for, which is so very much.

A Camping we will go...

2009-08-26T19:37:00.000-07:00

UMM, Fishing, Campfires, Smores, Swimming, Relaxing & visiting family.. What more could we ask for? The last week was great. I forget how much we love to camp and realized that we must go more. Saturday, Mark and the kids woke up early for the Perch tournament. Out of 13 boats Mark, Angela and MJ came in 5th place. That morning while Mark was getting ready to go he found $28.00 in his pocket pants that he hasn't worn in over 3 years. So we bought our raffle tickets because we knew that we would be lucky, and we were. Mark won - a coffee maker (that we gave away), an Eagle statue, A microwave and a really nice electric boat motor for trolling. It was like Christmas. He put that motor on the boat and went a fishin'. He has wanted one forever!
Was nice to have the family all together.

By the Campfire.. My children's many talents...

Here are a few pictures. Unfortunately not many, my battery was low.

Will add later.

MJ Football Tryouts

2009-08-17T08:22:00.000-07:00

Saturday morning was football tryouts for MJ. The Tri-Cities has great programs for the kids. They really like to keep them busy. Dad is very excited for MJ to play real football and will be volunteering. I am happy it will keep them both busy and off the computer games.
Heres a few picks from tryouts.

WARM-UPS

READY- SET

TACKLE

HIKE

I am super excited to watch MJ play this year. He starts practice today 5-7 every day till school starts and then practices 4 days a week during school and games on Saturday. Great Job MJ for making the team!!

Our very neglected Blog..

2009-06-08T07:50:00.000-07:00

It has been a very busy month. The recap....

Week of June 1st ~
A busy week with Dr.s Appointments and allergy shots. Angela had her braces off but the retainers had a problems so we had to go in and get refitted. We both had allergy shots and I was lucky enough to get my boobs smashed into the x-ray machine. Yes I had a mammogram. I have had a lump for a while but luckily enough it is just a swollen lymph node. Not a big deal unless it starts growing larger.
As the school year came to an end Mark and Emily had lots of fun carnivals at school. Emily went on a field trip to Moses Lake Aquatic park with her orchestra/band classes. Its a fun trip they do at the end of each year. Emily has been taking extra lessons this week to prepare for her first Feis. She did very well for her first competition in Portland ~ Oregon state Championship Feis 2009 ~ First Feis, Reel ~ 2nd Place ; First Feis, Light Jig ~ 2nd Place; First Feis, Single Jig ~ 2nd Pace; First Feis Special, Reel Special ~ 1st Place; Beginner Figure, 2 Hand Reel ~ 1st Place. We found out that this is going to be lot of fun and can't wait till the next Feis in July.
Week of June 8th ~ The last week of school. With the excitement still fresh in my mind I went to the dance board meeting and was elected the "costume coordinator" and "Feis coordinator" , so I have been extra busy with cleaning and organizing the costumes that were handed over to me. I love doing this type of work and this is a small scale compared to working on the "Fiddler on the roof" performance for the Oregon City Stake, which consisted of about 130 performers. So I am excited to be involved with at project again and I have lots of plans.
Again this week we had shots and Emily had several dance practices again.
Week of June 15th ~ Again lots of Dr's appts and lots of Dance practices. Saturday, The AnDaire Irish dancers performed at the Prosser Scottish Festival. It was fun to see the different dance groups. This week we also started packing for girls camp, ExCitInG!!
Week of June 22 ~ Again Lots of Dr's appts.. I think they are all done picking on me, except for my shots of course. Monday, Angela left for girls camp, She is excited to be a YCL this year. I cant believe that she only has 1 more year left, how sad. We all love girls camp. Hopefully they will be some of the best memories the girls will have. Emily left for girls camp on Tuesday. She has been waiting for girls camp for years!! I asked her for fun .. How long have you been waiting to go to girls camp, she said " oh, for about 12 years now". Seriously this girl has been excited for camp. Thursday I kicked the boys out of the house for TWO DAYS. MJ was so excited to go on a trip motorcycle riding and camping. He only had a few crashes and can't wait to go again, so that's a good sign. Friday the girls came home from camp, exhausted. Saturday, the girls and I, took a trip down to Molalla for a family reunion on my moms side. Was a nice time, we spent lots of time visiting with my Aunts, Uncles and cousins whom we haven't seen for a few years.
Week of June 29th ~ Shots this week of course.. Dance practice at my house for 6 girls learning the 3 hand Reel for the Feis coming up in Seattle in a couple of weeks.
And in between all of this we have the Yard to work on. I think its coming around, not as fast as I would like, but we have all been very busy. Mark bought a boat that we are going to resale after he cleans it up a little.
So that is it in a nutshell. Hope everyone has a safe 4th of July.

Busy, Busy, Busy Barkleys

2009-05-28T07:43:00.001-07:00

Its been very busy around here. Getting yard work done, having company, doing yardwork with company, Getting ready for Emilys first Feis, Emilys last Band and orchestra concerts. I am looking forward to this weekend ~ more yard work.
It is coming together, so thats good and the grass is starting to be green on our side of the fence now!!
Someday when I get my camera fixed I will post some pics.
Have a great week.. TTFN

Emily

2009-05-08T12:45:00.000-07:00

Yesterday Emily stayed home from school. It is not like Emme to miss school even when she is sick. Igot up early to take her to orchestra and she was asleep. Angie said she tried to wake her several times so I knew she needed some extra sleep so I let her sleep in till 10:00 hich is very unusual. Anyways, What she did was so cute. mark and I took MJ to get his scout shirt and when we came home she cleaned up our room and gave us cute little cards. She said " you should have seen how it put a smile on your face" . And it did. She is so thoughtful and I thank her for the example she is to me. Boy do I need to become more child like in Christ teachings.
Thank you Emme.

Tis the Season..

2009-05-07T09:44:00.000-07:00

To do yard work, fa la la la la, la la la la
Scrub the windows and the tile work, fa la la la la, la la la la.
Now we start our day with gladness, fala la la la la lala la la la la.
No more lawn with yucky brownness
Soon well have the most glorious greeness, fa la la, lalala, la la la.

I once thought we would never have a yard. We rented this thing-a-ma-jigger from West Richland Rentals that tilled the top layer of the dirt, (eating all our dead weeds of course) and smoothed it back out into a wonderful layer of dirt (weeds and grass excluded). It was amazing!! We worked all day Saturday through the rain and into the night. Was soo much fun. The kids and I pulled weeds as Dad used the magic tool. We started to have some showers, ok rain, And wouldn't you know it ~ The kids started singing and dancing in the rain, got very muddy and then insisted to give everyone hugs to eachother, even dad and I. Luckily the washer has a super duty, extra soiled cycle for washing. Unfortunately, the next day neither Mark or I could move. My arms were numb and my body so sore that it hurt to even walk. That will teach me to get out of shape, HA! Its a good thing we have sun for the next week cuz theres more stuff to do. I sense a never ending project coming soon..

I can't stand it any longer!

2009-04-30T14:53:00.000-07:00

Its 3:00 and time is SOOOOOO dragging on today. I am to be at the airport in 45 min. to pick my hubby up from the airport. I am SOOOOOO excited to see him. He has been gone to South Carolina for almost 2 long weeks. It is nice to have a small break from each other once in awhile but 2 weeks is way too long. I SOOOOOO love my Husband.

Today I found Joy in....

2009-04-23T08:38:00.000-07:00

...The wonders of Gods beautiful Gifts, finding a Pink Dogwood tree that is full of color and life.
...Angelas beautiful smile when shes told that she gets her braces off at the next visit.
...The chilled air that freezes my tootsies to let me know that I am alive.
...The beautiful deep blue sky that invites me outside.
...that I miss my Husband.
...Seeing Stephanie Smile again and having her be at home.
...Knowing my children are becoming strong, independant and responsible.
...Having Angela drive me around to Dr.s appts. She gets allergy tested today.
...Having more energy today than I've had in the last week.

Hip, Hip, Hooray!!!

2009-04-20T05:15:00.000-07:00

I am total miserable with a cold and allergies, yuck, YuCk, YUCK!!! My am so stuffy and my face is soo itchy and red its awful. But I am determined to find the joy, so here it goes.....

~ My allergy shots start on Tuesday.

~ The sun is out and it is going to be a great weekend and no rain in site for the next 10 days!!

~ We will be home this weekend. After the last two weekends traveling it will be great to be home.

~ A big hip, Hip, Hooray the irrigation system is finally on. That means that we have a ton of yardwork to do which is exciting. Weeds and dirt are no fun to look at.

~ Angela's last day of driving school is today! Great job Angie!

~ My Heavenly Father loves and watches out for us!

~ Realizing that finding joy is not always about the material things in life. Finding joy is a state of spiritual well-being. A comfort in putting your worries in the Lords hand and knowing it will work out. Trusting Him and Surrendering control scares me and that is something I need to work on.

~ Starting a list of joys and realizing what needs to be done to find that joy.

Me and My mom! ~ Snuggle Time!!

2009-04-10T10:25:00.000-07:00

I am soo happy that my Emme still gives me colored hugs and kisses. They always put a smile on my heart. Thank you Emme. Oh how I love you too! XOXOXO

Repentance & Forgiveness

2009-04-07T14:06:00.000-07:00

Admit it.... Nobody is perfect! After teaching a Primary Lesson about Repentance I paused to ponder. Is there a difference between Forgiveness and Repentance? I believe so and I believe they go hand-in-hand.

As becoming a member of the church the 4th article of faith states, "We believe that the first principles and ordinances of the Gospel are: first, Faith in the Lord Jesus Christ; second, Repentance; third, Baptism by immersion for the remission of sins; fourth, Laying on of hands for the gift of the Holy Ghost."

Repentance is making a confession to the Lord. Believing that our sins will be forgiven. It then is up to us to seek repentance for forgiveness from our Heavenly Father and do all we can do to change. As teaching the children, the steps to repentance is easy; First, we must feel sorry; Second, we ask forgiveness; Third, we right the wrong and Fourth, we don't repeat the wrong. Thankfully we can partake of the sacrament and renew this covenant every Sunday and have the atoning sacrifice of Jesus Christ.

Forgiveness is to pardon or excuse someone from blame for an offense or misdeed. The Lord commands us to forgive those who offend or hurt us. Forgiveness is much more difficult because it requires of us to have courage to ask forgiveness or the wrongdoer has not yet gotten to the point of asking for forgiveness and continues to offend. I do believe forgiveness is due if the wrongdoer makes an attempt by stopping the offense and they have a change in heart. You'll know when that happens, you can feel it (unfortunately, this doesn't usually happen overnight).

Of course, Dr. Lauras input below.

One thing to remember, we do not always realize that we have offended someone or maybe, they might even feel what they did was not offensive at all. But I would say that if a person has voiced their opinion and feelings are hurt that would be a pretty good indication that forgiveness is needed.

24 things to do in 24 hours ~ Spring Break Style

2009-04-04T16:46:00.000-07:00

So for spring break we went to our favorite Beach ~ Seaside! We love to stay at the Sand & Sea. It right on the beach and the whole front view wall is solid window. Even though it was only an overnighter it was fun filled. Here are some of the things we did; started out our journey and the truck needed a quick repair ~ played the alphabet game ~ played I spy ~ made it all the way to Hillsboro for lunch at McD's where we laughed till we cried ~ arrived at Seaside ~ checked in, saw the pool ~ went for a walk ~ bought kites ~ rode the bumper cars ~ rode the tilt-a-whirl ~ shopped for Emme's swimsuit ~ shopped for Angies sweatshirt(she forgot a coat, silly girl) ~ Flew the kites ~ got cold ~ went swimming ~ ate hot bown of chili to warm our bones ~ woke up ~ visited the Aquarium and fed the sea lions ~ Fed the seagulls a left over box of Fruit loops, french bread, oyster crackers & saltine crackers. Afterwards Angie runs through the seagulls Just like she used to when she was 5 ~ Bought Souvenirs from Aquarium ~ Shopped the Broadway shops ~ went to the Arcade ~ Got sweatshirts for Boys & Steph ~ rode the Bumper cars again ~ rode the tilt-a-whirl again ~ went to the best salt water taffy store ever and bought pounds of taffy ~ ~ visited the Aunts and Uncles in Portland for dinner and then headed home ~ All in 24 hours. WHEW! But it was way fun. I can't wait to go again soon.

Spring Break is here!

2009-03-31T09:31:00.000-07:00

I am so, so, so glad for spring break this year. I have really been struggling with staying ontop of life and unfortunately I keep falling off. It is hard to juggle being a Wife, a Mom, A housekeeper and a full time job. I hate it! So this spring break I took off work to be a full time mom. It has been great. We have been doing some spring cleaning and will be having fun time too. Last night we went to the movies and saw ~ Race to Witch Mountian, a perfect family movie that even Dad wanted to see, YEAH! Later this week we are going to the beach. Exciting!! And then home for Conference, Excitinglerestedly!!!!!

"W.O.W."

2009-03-24T08:13:00.000-07:00

Well Emily has done it again! She has received another WOW card from her teachers. She has been on Honor Roll with straight A's again for the 2nd Quarter. The Principal and his Vice Principals cooked breakfast for the Student and their parents in appreciation for the students hard work and good efforts towards being a superb student (there was about 10 students). Emily's LA, Math & Science teachers sat with us and had lots of good things to say about Emily. I am impressed with the respect that these teachers and staff have for their students. In the past I have seen too many times teachers talking down to students like they are nobody, and then they become nobodys. Not here, Everyone is worth the effort. A big shout out to E.M.S. for being the best school ever!!
Below is pictures of this years 6th grade Orchestra and Band Pictures.

Finding "Joy in the Journey"

2009-03-20T09:33:00.000-07:00

I'll ask forgiveness now for the long post..:)

Last night was Relief Society Enrichment night. I have to tell you Sister Marsha and her gang go ALL out. Let me tell you they take it to extremes. Everyone was given passports, upon entering the gym you were given a candy Lei (we are the Candy Mountain Ward) and welcomed. We had to go through the line, put our purse through the scanner and get our itinerary. Was way cute. Marsha and her husband have an art of making cardboard decor. Hopefully I can get pictures. But they made a plane, Train, a bus and a Huge Cruise ship as an entrance to each using the exit doors from the gym.
Dinner was served and we were off to our destinations, of course the sisters that chose the bus had a slight delay in their journey. The bus broke down and were assigned to a different means of transportation. So, off we went to our travel destinations (our 3 rotating classes, in 3 groups; plain, train & cruise ship).
In the first class, Sister King taught us about how to survive a crisis. She has read several books about survivors and the one thing that she learned was they #1, all had something to live for and #2 had faith.
The second class taught by my VT Companion, Sis Rex, who is just plain crazy. She took us on a safari trip into some jungle. Was cute and she played a superb guide. She spoke about Legos and Longerie. Most of us has had kids know that being a mother can be hectic, especially in those younger years when they depend on you for everything. She had some good tips like ~ get out of the house, going for a walk a breath of fresh air does wonders ~ get the kids dressed up and take them over to grandmas ~ or just go for a drive. (I sat their remembering those good ole' days and missed them, as hectic as they were. I loved it when my kids were little.) Then we were given the motivation talk on how to love yourself no matter what size you are. That your husbands deserve to see you with your hair done nice, nails done and also likes it when you in your birthday suite. So don't be hard on yourself, he loves you no matter what size you are. This talk was motivating for me. The next day I went out and got a hair cut, Mani and Pedi done. And, let me tell you it does make a difference in how I feel.
The Final class, Sister Sampson spoke about how her and her husband went to BYU Hawaii and he finished up his pre-med and had been applying to several med schools. It didn't work out the way it had planned and they had a 1 yr delay. During this time was difficult and didn't understand why they had worked so hard and not accepted into school. They applied for a great school in Israel and were accepted right away. During this 1 year delay they had met several people that either were moving to Israel or Had family in Israel. Sis Sampson kept a good diary of the events and shared some of those with us. It really touched me. Sometimes we don't always understand the trials we have until we look back on them and see the blessing that came from them. I so have a testimony of that!
After the mini-classes were done we all arrived at our final destination.
There we spoke about finding the joy in our journeys and Sis Marsha read the following poem, relating to life:

It's like... planning a fabulous vacation trip - to Italy. You buy a bunch of guide books and make your wonderful plans. The Coliseum. The Michelangelo David. The gondolas in Venice. You may learn some handy phrases in Italian. It's all very exciting.

After months of eager anticipation, the day finally arrives. You pack your bags and off you go. Several hours later, the plane lands. The stewardess comes in and says, "Welcome to Holland."

"Holland?!?" you say. "What do you mean Holland?? I signed up for Italy! I'm supposed to be in Italy. All my life I've dreamed of going to Italy."

But there's been a change in the flight plan. They've landed in Holland and there you must stay.

The important thing is that they haven't taken you to a horrible, disgusting, filthy place, full of pestilence, famine and disease. It's just a different place.

So you must go out and buy new guide books. And you must learn a whole new language. And you will meet a whole new group of people you would never have met.

It's just a different place. It's slower-paced than Italy, less flashy than Italy. But after you've been there for a while and you catch your breath, you look around.... and you begin to notice that Holland has windmills....and Holland has tulips. Holland even has Rembrandt's.

But everyone you know is busy coming and going from Italy... and they're all bragging about what a wonderful time they had there. And for the rest of your life, you will say "Yes, that's where I was supposed to go. That's what I had planned."

And the pain of that will never, ever, ever, ever go away...because the loss of that dream is a very very significant loss. But...if you spend your life mourning the fact that you didn't get to Italy, you may never be free to enjoy the very special, the very lovely things ... about Holland.

Again, I love the ward that we are in and the friends that I am making. This is my goal this year to find joy in the journey. Let me tell you it takes a lot of work to remember what you are thankful for and sometimes it is the pile of dirty cloths to be thankful that you have a family. Sorry for the long post. Somethings just cant be summarized in little details.

Let's do a recap of the week...

2009-03-15T21:09:00.000-07:00

First of all I hate loosing an hour of sleep. My body seems to just shut down. Didn't help that I had some kind of a bug this week.

MJ ~ Mj didn't have school Monday, Tuesday & Wednesday due to parent/teacher conferences. I have to say I really love Marks teacher and I think she is the best teacher ever; and I have had a few share of teachers with all my kiddo's. She really has a way for her kids to strive and do their best. Mark says she has never, ever gotten upset. Mark is doing great in school and loves math science & reading. He took a test that scored him reading as a 7.2 grader. I love the fact that all my kids love to read. And I don't mind that they stay up late reading books as long as they can wake up smiling in the morning. Great Job Markie!!

Emme ~ This week Emilys church basketball team played in the tournament on Thursday night. They won the 1st game and went on to play the 2nd and final game of the stake playoffs. That was two games in one night. She is doing great and has really gotten aggressive. She plays great defense and shuts her opponent down every time. I have to say that I was suprised to see her want to even play basketball and I am so proud of her getting out of her comfort zone. A big YeeHaa for Emme!!

Angela ~ Oh my goodness peoples... stay off the road, I repeat, stay off the road. Angela has started drivers ed and now has her permit. I have the privilege of teaching her how to drive, so she should be a pro in no time. She is excited to drive and is doing great. this week we practiced on the gas, break and turns. Today we went out on the hwy. Not bad for her first couple times. I am sure she will be a great driver and in a few months well have another driver in the house. Yeah Angie, Whoot, whoot!!!

Stephanie ~ Life is never dull with Stephanie in the house... She is keeping busy with work, dance, institute, going out with the sister missionaries, hangin' with the boys and helping her friends make a video. I have posted the videos, they are great and I am impressed with the fine young talented, soon to be, up and coming movies stars. A big shout out to the Russian Diva!!

Better in Time Video Project ~ Bloopers

Better in Time Video Project ~

Go Candy MT Basketball

2009-03-05T19:58:00.000-08:00

Tonight was the Richland Young Women's Basketball tournament. Candy Mountain ward goes onto next week. I have been impressed with Emily's learning curve. At the beginning of the season she was so shy, arms by her side and not moving around much (heck, I would be too if I was the youngest, smallest player out there). I have to tell you a totally different girl was playing tonight. Emily had several rebounds and was aggressive on defense (offense still needs a little work). I am soo impressed with the girls in her ward. The last quarter of the game they made a point to get Emily the ball so she could shoot it. I about cried. As a mom you want you children to be and do their best, you want them to be successful, to be accepted and build confidence. They were giving Emily this chance and they did it as a team. It was the sweetest thing I have ever seen, and let me tell you she is soo excited for next weeks game. She said shes going to play better and harder, I love it. Not bad for her first season. Great job Emme!!

F a M i L y

2009-03-03T08:08:00.000-08:00

"A family is strong when all its members are working together and, like the rope, cannot be broken easily. But when individual members no longer work in unity with each other, the family becomes weak, just as the rope did, and can more easily be broken. Everyone in the family benefits when individual members are working together."

This analogy says it all. When thought upon I think it comes down to the love and respect one feels for your family or for another. As the proclamation of the family it states "By divine design, fathers are to preside over their families in love and righteousness and are responsible to provide the necessities of life and protection for their families. Mothers are primarily responsible for the nurture of their children. In these sacred responsibilities, fathers and mothers are obligated to help one another as equal partners. Extended families should lend support when needed."
* As I look back on the past year there was no respect in my immediate family for my family. As I wanted so badly for my daughter to come home, others thought differently and that is where the rope was weakened. Choices were made feeling were hurt.
* A few weeks ago.. Its tax time. Had an issue with someone claiming our daughter on their taxes. Our daughter lived with them 5 1/2 months out of last year. Would you think that maybe she would claim herself or that her parents would claim her (she was 17 at the beginning of the year). Love and respect plays into this also. To show respect we would treat other with respect and do as you would do. Call and ask.
* This last weekend I received a disturbing email. We all have a choice in how we live. That is why we are here on this earth. Whether we choose a certain lifestyle or religion it is our choice. But what we don't do is bash on ones view because "it is not what I believe in or how we live". Again, This comes down to love and respect for an individual and for the family.
I am sure I can go on and people can go on about me too. The point is that if we do not treat our families with the utmost respect for each individual family we have nothing. Families will grow and soon my children will have their families and so forth. Each family is different. Each has there own ideas, traditions, foods they like, activities they do and values. It is when one family thinks less of a family because they don't think or do the same is a lack of respect and like the rope will loose its strength.
I am sorry for my rant. A quote to leave you with, "There are no perfect families only very good ones."

Angela Kay

2009-02-27T11:29:00.000-08:00

Angela ~ /a-nge-la, an-gela/ is pronounced AN-je-lah, It is of Greek orgin, and its meaning is " messenger of God; angel". Angela is adorable, compassionate, thoughtful, charitable, spiritual, independent, steadfast and immovable, creative, lovely, warm & snugly, considerate, willing to take a stand, dramatic, responsible and very, very loved.

Some memories of Angela:

When she was in early elementary school she seriously thought her name was Angelina. She was so convinced that her teacher thought so too. Teacher had her name on the desk as such and even on her papers. Once while talking with her teacher I noticed that she was calling Angela, Angelina. I looked at her a little confused as we were at Angela's desk I knew that we were definitely speaking of Angela. The teacher and I just laughed and she told me that Angela had corrected her and that her name was Angelina. I just smiled. Angela loved to play pretend and still does... Oh No, The start of my Drama Queen.

I love this picture of Angela on Easter Saturday. Angela has always loved the outdoors. I have lots of memories of her taking a mud bath at her grandmas, helping little birdies that flew into the window, playing with the dogs, catching froggies, swimming at the Lake, going fishing and jumping on the trampoline. Angela is a softie when it comes to animals and the outdoors.

Here is Angela at her 8th grade graduation right before we moved to the Tri-Cities. She works hard in school and loves to read books. Alot of books. If she gets her nose in a book good luck getting her out of it before shes done. She loves to learn both in school and at church. She is soo smart! I love the fact that I can go to her and she has an answer for me. She is a wonderful example to those around her.

Yesterday was Angelas "16th" Birthday. This Picture was taken of Angela a few months ago. Let me tell you.. This girl amazes me! When she sets her mind to do something she can accomplish anything. She is truly an example to those around her. She is a Daughter of God and is not afraid to stand up for her standards of living the Gospel. I can not express enough how much I love her and am so thankful that she has been entrusted into our care. She is truly a messenger from God and has been a blessing to have her in our lives.

Calgon, Where are you?

2009-02-25T15:50:00.000-08:00

It has been a long and stressful week so far and its only Wednesday! What the heck. I am still working on my list of things to get done and they are prioritized in my head. It seems like the list never seems to end. I'm tired would really like to run away. I hate those days! Yucky Phooey!! If I only had more time.. (WHOW, Epiphany.. I'm going to keep a list of my todo's on my blog and then keep it updated as I either 1) Post something todo or 2) take one off that I've done. I'll never forget now because I am a blogoholic and check mine daily for some strange reason I have this need to feel connected. Random thought, sorry.) Finding joy in my journey is just not happening this week. I just need to take a hot bath with book in hand, lock the door, read and relax. Calgon, Where are you? I know better days are ahead, really they are. Right?

MJ Basketball Game 7 Final Game

2009-02-22T13:27:00.000-08:00

Well it was a good game. The team worked hard to get 5 points on the board. The game was reffed terribly. I don't think that the kids reffing had a clue of what was going on. Teams are to play man to man and this team played zone. It seems we have a few coaches that don't know how to follow the rules. Im just glad that its over an MJ can play on a real team next year. So off to Soccer we will go. I am excited to watch him play he loves sports and does a great job working as a team. Also I am hoping for a basketball hoop so we can play together as a family. Gotta love it.

MJ Basketball Game 6 ~ 13 - 21

2009-02-16T13:35:00.000-08:00

Another great game played. Was a fun game to watch but I mostly had fun watching Kohen take his shots. What a ham he is.. MJ has one more game then Basketball season is over. bummer. We have lost again this week but the lessons learned are worth more and the kids are having fun playing. Great Job MJ!!

Excuses no more!!

2009-02-10T08:18:00.000-08:00

So last night I took a class on Psychology of weight loss. It was pretty interesting and how we are our own worst enemy. I would say that the thing I took home was the fact that we always seem to quit just when we are starting to see the results, ie.. jeans fit better, have energy, feel healthier. This is the time when our body is starting to change but there is no drop on the scale (at least that's the way it is for me). So what do we do, for me I start telling myself it will never happen and then I give up. What I should be doing is sticking to it. Stop making excuses and stop the vicious circle. My body is a temple and I need to take care of it. I must never give up no more..
Here is a you tube video that I thought was inspiring .

Stock in Tampax

2009-02-08T16:29:00.000-08:00

OK it used to be a joke that with having 3 girls I would have to buy stock in Tampax. Its not a joke any more.. Our goal this year is to work on our 3 month & 1 yr supply. Everything looks good until I try to figure out how many boxes of Tampax we will need. Oh My Goodness.... Not even funny. Mind you these are the Costco size boxes. We will need 72 boxes.. Thats 5,184 tampons.. Where in the world am I going to put all of them? Attic? Maybe unbox and seal tight them? I don't know.. What I do know it that this has to be the most expensive item on our list.
I took a class that Relief Society is having every month about preparedness. Sister Stowell is a great teacher. The goal is to get the basics and a 3 month supply and add to it. The long term goal is that you have a 1 1/2 year supply and stock pile the items that you always use. When she sees a good deal on something she buys it. Eventually you will have your own little grocery store. Mind you she has been doing this for years now and it does take a while to develop but once you do it saves alot because you eventually only need to buy when its a good deal because you already have every thing you need at home. That is the long term goal. For now I have made a great chart to get us started and we will work on it a little at a time, but at least e are working on it. Now, Go buy that stock!!

MJ Basketball Game 5 ~ 15 - 22

2009-02-08T16:26:00.000-08:00

It was a better game this time. The kids were well matched up and did a wonderful job. MJ 's energy had returned and made lots of rebounds. Lots of fun. Final score ~ us 15 them 22. Great D Kids..

Way to Go Steelers!!

2009-02-02T07:46:00.001-08:00

OK, So it has been a long tradition int he family that when ever Mark has a game on I root for the opposite team he does. So yesterday, I started rooting for the Arizona Cardinal's. I like Kurt Warner, Hes a great guy and the girls and I think hes pretty cute. But I really tried this time. I started to but I couldn't (Either way we would have been happy no matter who wins as long as a good game was played). I got a little involved in the game and let it slip on who I really wanted to win. Everyone looked at me .. Mom, are you rooting for the Steelers?? I was caught, what could I say? Except, YEP! It was a good game. I called the final score Steelers 23 Cardinals 20. I was surprised how close I was, except reversed in score. Luckily the Steelers pulled it out and made a blessed touchdown. Amen!!

MJ Basketball Game 4 ~ 21 - 18

2009-01-31T15:35:00.000-08:00

YEAH!! The cougars won their first game.. 21 to 18. They did a great job and were matched perfectly both in size and in skill. It was great to see the boys be excited again about basketball. MJ has been sick this week and I was surprised that he did so well. He was good at getting the rebounds and blocking the shots. You could tell he wasn't up to par the last half of the game but he stuck with it. Great Job MJ!!

COFFEE FILTERS: Not just for making coffee....

2009-01-30T11:18:00.000-08:00

OK This is one of thoes forwards that I thought I would share. Great Idea.

1. Cover bowls or dishes when cooking in the microwave.
Coffee filters make excellent covers.
2. Clean windows and mirrors. Coffee filters are
lint-free so they'll leave windows sparkling.
3. Protect China Separate your good dishes by putting a
coffee filter between each dish.
4. Filter broken cork from wine. If you break the cork
when opening a wine bottle, filter the wine through a coffee filter.
5. Protect a cast-iron skillet. Place a coffee filter in
the skillet to absorb moisture and prevent rust.
6. Apply shoe polish. Ball up a lint-free coffee filter.
7. Recycle frying oil. After frying, strain oil through a
sieve lined with a coffee filter.
8. Weigh chopped foods. Place chopped ingredients in a
coffee filter on a kitchen scale.
9. Hold tacos. Coffee filters make convenient wrappers
for messy foods.
10. Stop the soil from leaking out of a plant pot. Line
a plant pot with a coffee filter to prevent the soil from going through the
drainage holes.
11. Prevent a Popsicle from dripping. Poke one or two
holes as needed in a coffee filter.
12. Do you think we used expensive strips to wax eyebrows?
Use strips of coffee filters.
13. Put a few in a plate and put your fried bacon, French
fries, chicken fingers, etc on them. Soaks out all the grease.
14. Keep in the bathroom. They make great "razor
nick fixers."

Coffee filters ...who knew! And you can buy 1,000 at
the Dollar Tree for a buck.

Daddy Daughter bonding

2009-01-28T08:33:00.000-08:00

Last night Angela and Mark had a daddy daughter night at Mutual. They had so much fun getting to know each other better. They played a few games and Mark had to do Angies hair and nails. They were the first to finish. Then Mark had to answer questions to see how well he knew Angela. He got 1 answer right. They came home and asked me the questions and I only got 1 right. Here is the list of questions and answers about Angela:
What is your favorite TV Show? What not to wear
If you could go anywhere on vacation, where would it be? Hawaii
What is your favorite food? Spinach
If you had 2 hours of free time, what would you want to do? Play the Piano
What is your favorite music group/artist? Mutemath
Who is your favorite Disney character? Cinderella
If you could have one wish, what would it be? I would wish for a lizard.
What is your favorite subject in school? Seminary & Science.
I would have never guessed. We are so lucky to have Angela in our home. She is a doll. I can't tell you enough how much we love her and the spirit she brings into a room is enlightening. She is always trying her hardest at what ever she does and as she tries new things she is finding joy in her journey. She smiles alot and knows how to have fun. Love you Ange!!

MJ Basketball Game 3 - 16 - 38

2009-01-26T12:47:00.000-08:00

The team took another lose on Saturday. I missed most of the game but watched the 4th qtr. they did a great job. We have a player that always has the ball and makes off the wall shots. One player didn't show because hes ashamed of his team but showed up late and the coach let him play. I would have sat him on the bench the whole game. But I take the game a little too serious I guess. MJ is learning what a team is and that good. They all do a pretty good job and they are getting better. Final score us 16 them 38

A Dr. Laura moment..

2009-01-23T10:02:00.000-08:00

Tis the season..

2009-01-22T22:22:00.000-08:00

Tis the season to play basketball. Emily and Angela played their first young womens church basketball game tonight. They did a great job. Reminds me of the day.. Fun to watch. Final score. Candy Mountian Ward 22 Crestview ward 16.. Great job girls!

QUOTE OF THE WEEK:

2009-01-21T09:40:00.000-08:00

“High on the wall, in the castle of your dreams of success, hangs the picture of what you want to be. Always keep that picture hanging there. See yourself where you intend to be. Night and day dream of what you intend to be, for your dreams interpret your intentions always. All successes are, at first dreams.” Fred Van Amburgh

I thought I would share this inspiring message. Dare to Dream !!!

MJ Basketball Game 2 ~ 18 - 38

2009-01-19T08:39:00.000-08:00

Another fun game to watch. All the boys did much better this time with defense and blocking the shot. Markie again made the first 2 points and dribbled the ball to the other end and made the shot. He is really good. I love to watch his excitement when he plays. He was one of the top scorers in the game and Mark said he was the best defensive player on the team. Both games its been good that he has been man on man against someone who is much bigger than he is. It will make him a better player. He does a great job in blocking these bigger more aggressive players, In fact when he does they can't shot the ball and ends up having to pass it. It will be fun to watch him grow into a better player as time goes on. Next game Saturday, Jan 24th..

Thank You Mark

2009-01-16T18:05:00.000-08:00

Mark, I know I am not always the easiest person to live with and we have our up's and downs. But I really am the luckiest person in the world to have you. Life has its times where we look forward to spending every moment together to absolutely not wanting to be around that person because they irritate the heck out of you. We seem to have alot of those days lately and I'm sorry for being distant. I Love you! I really do. I am really just trying to focus on myself this year that I forget to focus on you too. Hang in there with me, hopefully I'll be a new person by the time were through. Thank you for the beautiful roses and putting a smile in my heart.

Quote for today

2009-01-14T14:06:00.000-08:00

A customer sent this to me in one of those pass along emails. I found it inspiring so I thought I would share:

St. Theresa's Prayer:

'May today there be peace within. May you trust that you are exactly where
you are meant to be. May you not forget the infinite possibilities that
are born of faith in yourself and others. May you use the gifts that you
have received, and pass on the love that has been given to you. May you be
content with yourself just the way you are. Let this knowledge settle into
your bones, and allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise and
love. It is there for each and every one of us.'

MJ Basketball Game 1 ~ 14 - 32

2009-01-12T08:29:00.000-08:00

MJ is playing Basketball through Richland Parks and Rec. This is his first year playing and dad is helping as assistant coach. MJ's team is made up of mostly 4th & 5th graders. They play 9 different schools within the district and there a total of approximatly 50 teams of K-5 and both boys and girls teams.
Its fun to watch these kids learn to play . We have a very little team. MJ being the tallest. The team we played Saturday was big. Since they play man on man and MJ is the biggest kid on the team they will put him with the biggest kid from the other team to guard. To give you an idea this kid was about 2 times MJ's size and about a foot and a half taller. There were about 3 or 4 large kids on the team. They scored 6 points right off the bat and then MJ got the ball, dribbled it all the way down to the otherend of the court and made a layup. I was amazed. I knew he loved basketball and has takes his ball to school with him almost everyday but I didn't realize how good he has gotten. MJ scored the first 2 points. YEAH MJ!!!!! And then I about lost it watching the rest of the game. The other team kept triple teaming our little guys and, We have a good coach but not as aggressive as I would like and didn't point this out the fact to the refs. Me on the other hand was calling it out left and right. I was about ready to jump over there and take over. I had to remind myself they are learning this isn't school ball.. All in fun. Final score us 14 - them 32.

Our Christmas Vacation

2009-01-07T12:58:00.001-08:00

Its been a while so excuse me if I ramble....
December 24th, Christmas Eve ~ Today is the start of our Christmas vacation. We left on time, amazingly enough, by 11:00am. With all the big snow storms we have been having, I being the paranoid passenger insisted we stop and find chains, I-84 had just opened the day before and was uncertain about the conditions. We did hit a pretty good patch of ice and before the truck slipped off the Highway Mark used his special powers and put it in 4 wheel drive. We arrived safety over the river and through the woods at grandmothers house and took a nice winters nap.

December 25th, Christmas Day ~ This has to be one of the best Christmases for me. Today we woke up about 4:00am and went to the homeless shelter in Albany, Oregon. It amazes that year after year this is what the kids love to do on Christmas Morning. They have learned the true meaning of Christmas and it isn't the presents (although they still think their pretty great) its about what we can give to others who have less than us. To celebrate Christmas serving others as Christ served. As I watched the kids prepare breakfast my heart was filled with Joy. Now that the kids are getting older they all had an items that they served. Grandpa Widing serves the syrup, oranges, candy canes, and milk/juice in the cafeteria where the kids are not allowed. Mark and I worked where needed. Every year we are getting quicker at preparing breakfast and the homeless are always soo thankful to have a hot meal.
Afterwards, Pastor Bailey gave us a tour of the newly finished family housing units. It was nice to see that there is a safe place for people to go if they need to and a much better facility than the broken down building they were in before. I am thankful for all my blessing, which are abundant.

December 26th ~ This morning we went to visit Aunt Lori, Uncle Mike, Aunt Kim & Uncle Aaron. We didn't get to stay too long because we also went to see "Bedtime Stories" with Grandma and Grandpa Widing. After the movie we went out to Sharies for some Hot Cocoa. It was nice to see all of them.

December 27th ~ Spent the morning getting ready for the "Big Ski Trip". Laundry packed and everything sorted for that stop on the way back through town. Mark & MJ went to Uncle Aarons and Aunt Kimmies to help plumb for the new dishwasher and disposal they got for Christmas. the girls and I visited for a short while before we went back up to Portland for the get together with Marks buddies at Ron and Lenas. His friends are doing great and we even got to see Randy this year. Its always fun to reminisce about "the good-old-days".

December 28th ~ Up to the mountain we go. We made great timing. The roads were clear from the warm-up and the rain. We decided to stop by Hoodoo to see what the snow was like. We were shocked to see the parking lot as a big lake. I have to admit we were all pretty worried about our ski trip and thought it might be a wasted time. We headed off to the Condo that we rented. It was sooo nice.

December 29th ~ Woke up to about 8" of snow in Sisters and about 18" of new snow at Hoodoo. We were ready to go. The kids took snowboarding lessons and the teacher find tuned their snowboards that they got for Christmas. We love the Snow!!! Unfortunately it was windy and they closed the lifts at 4:00.

December 30th ~ This was the most perfect day to ski. Hoodoo rated ot a 9. The slopes were groomed, the sky was blue and temperature was great. It was warm enough that a light jacket would have been warm enough. This was our long day on the mountain. I braved a private lesson and took the Manzinita up and took on the Over-easy trail. I thought I was well prepared but my confidence was shattered. I have not been cutting enough on my pizza but keeping it flat (that of course was so I could go faster on the beginner slope). So my teacher said to practice on the cutting and then maybe another lesson the following day. I have to admit I am getting a little bord with the kiddy slope. The kids do great. They go up with Mark and for the harder slopes. By the time night skiing came around the kids were getting a little daring I was getting a little tired and feeling some muscles I havent felt before. FUN!!

December 31st, New Years Eve ~ I didn't want to getup and go too early since we were planning another long day. Unfortunately, we should have. It was a blistery day only rated a 4. I was too sore to ski but was willing to go then Mark thought we should go. He was having a hard time. So if I knew he was having a hard time it must be pretty bad, he'll ski through almost anything.
We headed to the Condo for snacks. I was glad we didn't make it a long day. We were all pooped. Grandma Barkley bought a surprise hats and noise makers. Mark and I insisted we celebrate early (9:00pm) We are such party poopers. MJ, Emily and Grandma stayed up past midnight ~ those party animals!!

January 1st, 2009 ~ Happy New Year!!! ~ Woke up to strong winds so we headed out as quickly as we could. The wind, rain and warmth brought lots of water on the roads But we made it over the river and through the woods to Grandmothers house again. We Loaded quickly and off to go home. Luckily the roads were clear with ice and snow but not with water.

January 2nd ~ Today, took some pictures of the kids by the tree. I can't wait to see how they turned out. We went to see a movie Valkyrie. We all liked it and put a new perspective on the Germans. Not all of them wanted to follow Hitler.

January 3rd & 4th ~ 2 Lazy Days. I took my Christmas tree down and put all the Christmas stuff away till next year. Sunday went to chruch and bore my Testimony for the first time in a very long time. I wanted my kids to know that I do believe in the Savior Jesus Christ and that I was proud of them for giving of their time on Christmas. I look forward to more service this year and hope it will be a good year for all.

January 5th ~ Finished Cleaning house.

January 6th ~ Went back to work, YEAH!! Its only taken me 2 days to get caught up.

I am excited for the new year and look forward to settling into the house, we still have alot of work to do. The landscaping is our main project this year. I have some great ideas.

Hope everyone had a great Holiday Season!!

Kaleidoscope in Motion...A Holiday Spectacular....

2009-01-07T12:42:00.001-08:00

Saturday, December 20th, Emily had a big performance at the Toyota Center in front of about 2000 people. It featured several of the area groups such as, The Mid-Columbia Ballet, Tri-Cities US Figure skating club, Tri-Cities Amature Hockey Association - USA Hockey Assoc Skills Development program, Miss Tri-Cities & AnDaire Acadamy of Irish dancing. Each group performed several festive performances. Tt was fun to see all the different skills and ages perform. Emily loves Irish Dancing ALOT!! We are blessed to have so many prograns available in the Tri-Cities. A great place for kids!!

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!!

2008-12-23T22:25:00.000-08:00

We will be out for the week so no blogs for a while.
We wish every one a very Merry Christmas and a safe New Year.
Love you all lots!!

Lord of the Dance

2008-12-18T08:13:00.000-08:00

Months back Emilys Irish Dance group bought a bunch of tickets for their Irish Dancing group to go watch "Lord of the Dance" that features Irish dancing. Last night was the performance. It was amazing! While the troupe no longer features Michael Flatley they had an impressive performance. Just ask Steph.
A few things I learned is that the "Lord of the Dance" is based on ancient Irish Folklore. The story follows the character "Lord of the Dance" and his fight against the evil dark lord from taking over Planet Ireland. The "Lord of the Dance" defeats the dark lord's invasion with help from a little spirit. There is also a story with a "love vs lust" theme expressed through dance throughout the show. "Saoirse, the Irish Cailín" fights for the love of the "Lord of the Dance" against the wicked "Morrighan, the Temptress".
From the moment the lights went out and the energy began, and we were captured by the magical beauty of the Irish. The dancing, singing, music, including the violin solos was absolutely amazing. Its no wonder why its " The worlds greatest dance show" ever! Thanks Girls for a fun night out!

Christmas Tag..

2008-12-17T12:39:00.000-08:00

1. Wrapping paper or gift bags? I love Wrapped gifts, they look great under the tree.
2. Real tree or Artificial? Real tre a must, Nobel Fir
3. When do you put up the tree? Usually the 1st or 2nd week in December
4. When do you take the tree down? The week after New years
5. Do you like eggnog? YUCK!!!!
6. Favorite gift received as a child? Dont remember one.
7. Hardest person to buy for? I dont buy if its that hard.
8. Easiest person/people to buy for? Kids
9. Do you have a nativity set? Yes
10. Mail or email Christmas cards? Mail, Email is so impersonal.
11. Worst Christmas gift you ever received? Don't have one.
12. Favorite Christmas Movie? I love all Christmas movies especially the classics.
13. When do you start shopping for Christmas? Dont
14. Favorite thing to eat at Christmas? Sweets
15. Lights on the tree? Lots and Lots of lights with Snow
16. Favorite Christmas song? Love them all..
17. Travel at Christmas or stay home? I'd love to stay at home but we travel fro the last couple years. The Kids love to feed the homeless on Christmas morning
18. Can you name all of Santa's reindeer's? Sure Can.
19. Open the presents Christmas Eve or morning? Cant open them on Christmas eve cause Santa doesn't come till the morning.
20. Most annoying thing about this time of the year? Too Commercialized. People forget the eal meaning of Christmas.
21. Favorite ornament theme or color? Dont have one. Its what the kids have made over the years and what ornament last from the previous year.
22. What do you want for Christmas this year? A safe and fun Ski Vacation with lots of snow and lots of fun.

Driving in Snow

2008-12-15T11:07:00.000-08:00

Tips from Chucks page... Hoodoo.com

1) When driving in snow have on good tires, preferably snow tires possibly with studs. Carry chains, even if you don’t need them, it is the law.
2) Always drive in control. This means stay at a speed that is reasonable. Stay under 45 MPH. That gives more reaction time if some other knucklehead does something stupid.
3) Don’t let the guy behind you push you into going faster. If he or she (although normally it would be a he) starts to ride your bumper, pull over as soon as it is safe and let him pass. He is probably being stupid, but remember the safe speed for you in your car might not be the same for him in his car.
4) Keep your distance from the car in front of you and only pass where you are sure it is safe.
5) Make sure your windshield and mirrors are clear. It is a good idea to let your vehicle run for a bit before leaving.
6) Unfortunately, our biggest problem is the other guy.
7) If your are going to drive make sure you have plenty of food and clothing to keep warm just in case.
Driving in the snow is really pretty easy when you obey the most important rules, good tires and slow speed. Drive defensively and give yourself plenty of time.

The Snow is Coming, The Snow is coming!!

2008-12-12T14:30:00.000-08:00

I have to tell everyone how excited I am that the big Blizzard is coming to the great North West this weekend. This Christmas we have decided to opt out on presents and have planned a Christmas Ski/Snowboard Vacation instead. YEAH!!!!! Kids have been extremely excited. We have had one problem, No Snow. The Ski Season should have opened right after Thanksgiving and is still not opened and now they are hoping that they will open December 19th. Well Emily Looks like our snow dance has finally paid off. They should have no problem opening this week now ~ We are gonna have a blizzard in the Mountain's!!
It also looks like we will have snow starting here at our place too. I love waking up to freshly fallen snow and cool crisp air to walk in at night, its so peaceful.
Have a great weekend, Stay warm and Drive Safe..

Man loses everything Prays for Pilot

2008-12-10T08:44:00.000-08:00

I wanted to share this story with you. Although it is only parts and pieces of what I felt was the importand parts to share. I am touched by this man who has just lost everything and can find it in his heart to forgive this pilot and even prays for him so he does not suffer. Another reminder if the true meaning of Christmas. Its not in the gifts that we buy in a store but the gifts we give from our heart.

SAN DIEGO, California (CNN) -- A Korean immigrant who lost his wife, two children and mother-in-law when a Marine Corps jet slammed into the family's house said Tuesday he did not blame the pilot, who ejected and survived.

"Please pray for him not to suffer from this accident," a distraught Dong Yun Yoon told reporters gathered near the site of Monday's crash of an F/A-18D jet in San Diego's University City community. "He is one of our treasures for the country," Yoon said in accented English punctuated by long pauses while he tried to maintain his composure. "I don't blame him. I don't have any hard feelings. I know he did everything he could," said Yoon, flanked by members of San Diego's Korean community, relatives and members from the family's church.

Yoon named the victims as his infant daughter Rachel, who was born less than two months ago; his 15-month-old daughter Grace; his wife, Young Mi Yoon, 36; and her 60-year-old mother, Suk Im Kim, who he said had come to the United States from Korea recently to help take care of the children. Fighting back tears, he said of his daughters: "I cannot believe that they are not here right now." "I know there are many people who have experienced more terrible things," Yoon said. "But, please, tell me how to do it. I don't know what to do."

Yoon's minister, Daniel Shin, told reporters the Yoon family had moved into the house a little more than a month ago. He said Yoon came to the United States in 1989 and had since become a naturalized citizen. Yoon works as manager of "a variety store -- a store where they sell a variety of things," Shin said.

Yoon's wife came to the United States about four years ago, Shin said. Yoon spoke softly when he talked about his wife. "It was God's blessing that I met her about four years ago. She was a lovely wife and mother," he said. His voice fading, he added: "She loves me and babies. I just miss her so much."

Emily

2008-11-30T13:40:00.000-08:00

Today was Emily's first day in Young Women's and I had the privilege of introducing her to all the girls. This is what a proud mother has to say about her daughter:

Today I have the opportunity to introduce you to someone very special to me. This is Emily and she just turned 12. her favorite food is lasagna. Let me tell you a little about Emily. She is in the 6th grade at Enterprise middle school where she is Explorers " student of the month". She is smart and loves to read books. I asked her about how many books she's read and its probably hundreds. Emily loves to sing and is learning to play 3 instruments; The violin, Clarinet & the Piano. She loves the symphony. She is also learning Irish Dancing. She loves to learn new things. She also likes to sew and do arts and crafts. BUT, don't let all that girly stuff fool you. Emily does have a wild side. She loves to play soccer, volleyball, snowboarding and Rock climbing. She loves hockey games, especially when the fights break out (they don't last long enough). One of Emily's most favorite things to do is go motorcycle riding with her dad. As you can see she is very well rounded. The best thing I love about Emily is that she is kind and cares about others. She loves to serve those in need. She loves the gospel and is always there prompting us to start FHE. Emily is ready for Young women's. I am excited to watch her learn more about the gospel and become a valiant Daughter of God. I m excited for her and I thank her for being such a wonder example to me. Emily Barkley.

As I watched Emily get her graduation certificate today I realized that my little girl is growing up and growing up fast. I am excited to see her grow and experience a new phase in her life, Being a Young Woman. I love you Emily, You will always be my little Boo Bear. Mom

FHE Night for the Holidays

2008-11-25T08:15:00.000-08:00

If anyone needs a good FHE for the holidays heres a great new tradition to start. This will take a few weeks to do so plan. A great way to involve your kids in missionary work and service.
Supplies needed: lots of candy canes, a few of your favorite scriptures, decor scissors, hole punch, cardstock paper or scrapbook paper, glue sticks, ribbon, mailing boxes with padding & missionary addresses. You could probably do this in less days but are putting together about 200 candy canes.
#1 Spend a night finding having everyone find a couple of their favorite scriptures and then read them. Find scriptures that non-members could relate to.
#2 Moms/Dads will have to prepare during the week for the next FHE night. Type onto computer and print making in label size labels for each scripture found. Dont forget to put the scripture reference. Print on sheet of paper for the next FHE night.
#3 The second FHE night have Decor scissors and glue ready. Cut your label size scriptures and glue onto a heavier card stock or even scrapbook paper. Hole punch in corner
#4 Moms/Dads time to go get the candy canes.
#5 For the last FHE night attach the labels made to the candy canes using a ribbon or string. Then pack and send to the missionaries in the field.
This is another tool for them to use during the holidays. What a better way to leave a spiritual note to those who may not be ready to hear the Gospel. I look forward to sharing our favorite scriptures an pray it touches the hearts of those who are in need of spiritual guidance. The gospel is a wonderful gift.

Its in the mail...

2008-11-13T14:55:00.000-08:00

Sorry guys for taking so long getting the goods in the mail but..... Julie I was having too much fun wearing your Ughs, they are adorable!! Kohen I had to watch you Elmo movie over and over, IVE BEEN VERY GROUCHY!! Jer I had to rewash your shirt, Mark wore it to work and stretched it all out. JK everyone.. they have been packed, ready and waiting for me to get out of my PJ's. I think I got everything, Yours to Grandpa Bronec. OH Jason I think theres a shirt I sent to Stef thats yours. Love you & miss you all!!

My Heavenly father does love me!!

2008-11-10T09:13:00.000-08:00

This weekend I was down for the count with a small cold I have been fighting. Sunday I woke up and I could not talk, I could bearly get a whisper out. It was terrible. So, Mark being the wonderful loving husband he is, gave praises to the Lord by saying,"my Heavenly Father does love me!!!" As I imagine Oh Blessed day in the back of his mind. He repeated " Kids, Heavenly Father really does love me. My prayers have been answered". He is such a silly goose. But it looks as if he is blessed man again today...

This last Week

2008-11-05T09:44:00.000-08:00

This last week has been a very good one for the Barkley Family.
Tuesday Emily played in her first Orchestra concert. She plays the Violin and is doing very well. And then on friday, which is the best of all days, this is what happened!!!!
#1 ~ For those who know our original builder of our home has slapped a lawsuit against us. Did he have a great case?, not really. We have alot of evidence to point to why we could no longer have him as a builder. But nevertheless, we settled out of court as quick as possible to stop the incuring attorney fees and to move on with our lives. Going to court would have cost way more than the return we would get. I think we came out on top.
#2 ~ It was Halloween. As hecktick as it was, Emily said it was the best halloween ever. I would agree. About 4:00, the Jeremiah Barkley family arrived at the house. Of course I was already excited that they were here but this time they brought a suprise, as I walked up to the car I saw Stephanies pillow case, I thought thats odd, and lookd behind the pillow and there Stephanie was. The bestestedly suprise ever!! Of course we were all teary and hugged forever!!!! Emily went to dance. We arrived at the church just in time to go trunk or treating. This year I decorated the back of the Montero. It was fun and almost ran out of candy. After Trunk or treating the kids went trick or treating in the neighborhood. Came back to the house to have our traditional " Mom's Chili and an old classic halloween movie, This year it was " The Ghost and Mr. Chicken" One of the kids's favorite.
#3 ~ As most of you know Mark has been fighting high cholesterol for years, Since he was about 28. It really didn't matter what he ate hit would never go down. Once he even went on soy and salads for a good 6 months. He has tried several cholesterol medications and none really worked that great, maybe only lowering it a few points. Our new doctor here in Richland decided to try a new medication. And it worked. Lowering his cholesterol to the normal range. I was soo excited. This was the best news of the day!!! In fact of my life!!!! I want my husband to grow old with and to watch our grandbabies grow up.
On Saturday was the 3rd annual Barkley Murder Mystery. Stef wrot this one and it was great!! The setting , the characters, the script was all soo perfect. You'll have to check out her blog to see all the pic's. My camera is broken. :(
Thank you everyone for coming!! We look forward to the next get together.

The hole in your Heart

2008-11-05T09:41:00.001-08:00

Thought for the week. At a time in my life (age 40 :)) when I expected life to be at its best, It is. Today I have blinked. I know the people around me who love me and think of me as a good person and I love them. No longer will I be part of a broken record. I have a wonderful husband, children that we both share together and they love me. Life is too short to try to fix the problems that we know are unfixable. I like Dr. Lauras insight.

The Night at the Symphony

2008-10-27T12:06:00.000-07:00

I love the Tri-cities! We have so many opportunities here that a large city has. Saturday night we had a girls night out and went to the Mid-Columbia Symphony. They play a fun arrangement of Charles Ives "America", A little Gershwin and ended with Aaron Copland's Rodeo. This was the girls favorite, all because it was the same music played in Fievel goes west; An American tail. It was fun and spunky and the conductor even wore his cowboy boots to keep the western theme in full swing.
It was a nice night. The girls got dressed up in very fancy attire and were very beautiful. They are growing up so fast. I can't wait till our next date.

Emily Band Concert

2008-10-21T20:45:00.000-07:00

Tonight was Emily's first band concert. She plays the Clarinet. She was wonderful. I love watching her. She was very excited and you could definitely tell she loves music. It was a very short concert with the songs only lasting a few measures. They did very well and I was impressed to see how well they all listened and watched the teacher. My camera is broken so here are a few pictures from my cell.

Tri-City Americans 6 , Seattle Thunderbirds 4

2008-10-20T14:03:00.000-07:00

This last Friday was my 40th birthday. I Can't believe that I am 40. I don't feel 40& I hope I don't look 40. I guess I can say life gets better with age or is it Ripened with age. Anyways, It was fun. I planned my birthday. It was a suprise for the kids and was driving them crazy just guessing. All I said is that they needed to dress warm because where we were going it was going to be cold. They laugh and asked, "Where are we going, Iceland?" I said pretty close. They kept guessing and of course I'd play back, not giving too much info to ruin my suprise. We left the house and arrived at the Toyota Arene. Angela was mad, she thought that we were going to watch the motocross races. Emily and MJ were excited. When we walked in the door they seemed confused. A Hockey Game? "But Mom you dont even like hockey", I heard. Oh no, Hockey is my favorite!! Really? they replied..I have been wanting to go to a hockey game for over 10 years!! It was a new experience for them never watching hockey before and sitting in the first row against the glass. And of course, MJ wants to play hockey now. It is going to be a fun season. Who will beat the 2007-2008 US Division Champs this year, I'm guessing Tri-City Americans will win again!!!

A constant in the mist of change

2008-10-07T15:22:00.000-07:00

I love the Gospel and the fact that it gives us a constant in the mist of a changing world. I loved the talks spoken in general conference this last weekend as they spoke about trials, faith, endurance and virtue and I found myself making a list in my mind of things that I needed to improve on. And remember that I can not be exalted in ignorance. I am looking forward to becoming stable in our new ward, having a calling and going to the Temple. I miss that. And though I have never felt so far from our Savior, My testimony has been strengthened. I know he is always there and still Loves me.

Out of commission no more!!

2008-09-30T08:29:00.000-07:00

Well we are now back up and running. Internet is on and we are in our home.
It seems as we have been climbing Mt Hood this last year but I think we are over the top and on the way down. We are settling in for a cold winters nap and ready to get comfy and cozy by the fire with the smell of a warm pie.
It has been a little difficult to get out of the "putting out the fire" mode when there seems to be so much still yet to do. But I am working on it. I need to realize that everything doesn't need to be done right now and that it will take me awhile to decorate and get ideas that fit our style. Especially when you have little furniture. Thats the fun part I guess.
I am getting excited for this weekend. I love Conference weekend. I love listening to the speakers send their messages to us in a way that it is so touching to each person in the way that they needed to hear it. I love the church and excited to start in our new ward which starts October 12th. The Candy Mountian Ward. We have over 1500 members in just 4 ward (thats counting the new ward formed Sunday). Can you believe it, 1500 + Members in the little city of West Richland alone. We have 3 wards meeting in our new building. The Young Single Adults ward, our old ward, the Lakes ward and the new ward, The Candy Mountian ward. There is already talk of the Stakes getting revised and we would be part of the Stake center the Temple is in. I love the area. The church is strong and the youth are great. And on top of it we have over 300 days of sunshine a year. Who could ask for more??
Yes, this is the pep talk to get everyone to move closer to us. For now I guess we'll have to settle with visits. Cant wait to see you all this weekend. Love Ya !!!

Out of commission

2008-09-02T13:08:00.000-07:00

Well it is official, We are out of our apartment and into a hotel room for a few days. The Home has offically been late again and we hope to get our CO tomorrow or Thursday at the latest. And our aprtment managers want us out so they can get the apartment rented . I thought maybe they would give us a few more days but no is the final answer. Wish us well with our CO. Hopefully we will have a home this weekend.

Checking out for now. Danna

School finally Starts

2008-08-27T13:03:00.000-07:00

Today was the first day of school. Me of course am so excited to have a little quite time again (not really quiet since I work full time, yuck!).
Angela is a sophmore this year and is really excited to do well in school. She will be driving her car by March if her grades are good enough.
Emme is in a new school this year. A little tiny sixth grader this year. I walked her to class and the older kids are huge! Then we got to the sixth grade hall and the sixth graders looked so small.
MJ is in the fifth grade this year and is on his own this year. He said he is really going to miss being with Emme. I'm glad they get along so well.
The last few days we have spent getting shoes, haircuts and supplies. Clothes will be coming soon. Its still been nice weather the kids can wear their shorts still.

A trip to the fair

2008-08-25T09:55:00.000-07:00

Friday night we went to the fair. It was a perfect fair night. Clear ski, Slight breeze and about 70 degrees. The Kids had alot of fun and Mark went on a few rides with them, one that free falled. MJ was soo excited to go on that one but when he got to the bottom his face was so pale. He was happy he did it! It was fun to just hang out together as a family. No worries to think about except have a fun time. MJ got a little sick and so he hung out with Mom and Dad and walked around the booths. He found a rock club that he wants to join and I would like to enter a quilt or some jam for the fair. MJ wants to enter a model. Emme and Angie just want to go on lots and lots of rides. Can't wait till next year's fair. Maybe we'll hit the Washington State fair too.

Not so Great 2008..

2008-08-25T08:49:00.000-07:00

I thought this year started out great, it was the year 2008. But lo and behold I dont think it was on the books to be that great. This last few months have just been a drag! I wont go into all the wonderful events we have been through because I am sure you have heard enough of our whining, crying and moaning. All I can say is that if we ever do get to move we are going to have one heck of a New Years Eve Party to celebrate the fact that 2008 is past and we made it thought another tough year. So sorry I have not been updating but we've been extreamly busy, an extreamly would be an understatement. Not enough hours in a day to get what I need done done!

blah, Blah BLAH!!!!

2008-08-13T08:42:00.000-07:00

Of course the house is still going. We have been patient so far and hoped to move in this next weekend. Of course that is not happening because we cant seem to get finished. So of course we keep hearing one excuse after another and then have to take charge and do it ourselves. We still have alot of work to do and just need to be done with the house. Very frustrating!! I am hoping there is light at the end of the tunnel.

Its Monday Again!!

2008-08-04T09:02:00.000-07:00

I am starting to dread these Mondays. Working up at the house Friday, Saturday and Sunday till midnight can be so tough when you have to go to work during the week. It is rewarding however to see the house come together duing this final stage. This last weekend we (or should I say Mark) layed the tile in the both kids bathrooms and the utility room. It looks great. I am so thankful for my talented husband. I think he can do anything. I am so proud of him. He has been working with Emme and MJ this last weekend and he has a pretty good system. The kids love to work with their dad. Emme's smile is from ear to ear as she talks about working with her dad. I love the relationship that he has with them (and the patience too). I know Pictures are coming, soon.

Mr PB's or should I say Mr. Snuggles

2008-08-01T13:28:00.000-07:00

This is our fat cat PB, Short for Porky Ballerina. I call him Mr. Snuggles. For the last 2 months PB has been acting a little on the strange side. You see, PB has never really been much of a snuggler and if he is snuggly its because there is no food in his cat dish. For the last 2 months he has been extreamly snuggly. At night he has to sleep in by bed and feels he must take up the whold bed. At 2:00 in the afternoon I can always count on PB jumping on my work desk and making himself comfortable. I don't really mind but sometimes its hard to work when he's laying on my table. I just think he is lonely and misses his best bud Stephanie like we all do.

How Thoughtful

2008-07-29T16:47:00.000-07:00

This last few weeks/months have been hard. The house is taking longer than we had liked, Stephanie has moved out of the house rather suddenly, We have spent every weekend and weekday for the last 4 weeks working on the house or going out of town. Needless to say it has been very stressful.
Today Emme and Angela went to the store to get some toothpaste and to just get out and go for a walk. I got a call that they needed to be picked up at Subway and they had something that would spoil if they walked home. As I drove up to subway I could see them smile so big. My thought was 'what are these two characters up to now'. I thought maybe they were trying to schmooze me over because Emme wanted to get some minutes for her phone. I walked in and they had flowers, chocolate and a card for me. It was soo sweet. Thank you girls for cheering me up. I love you soo much. Things are getting better, Slowly but surely they are getting better. I am excited for our move coming up and to be done with the house issues. I am excited for Football season to be here and the smell of falls crisp air. I am excited to bake apple pies and sit by the fire watching football and relaxing. I am excited for our first Thanksgiving and Christmas in our new home. I am excited for all the new memories to come. Good times are coming and they are just around the corner.

CRAZY

2008-07-23T08:58:00.000-07:00

Sorry for the late up date with the Barkley family but it has been very CRAZY here. Friday morning we started laying flooring down. By the time we got it all together we started friday night and finished Tuesday night. We have been working all day from 8am to midnight on Saturday and Sunday, after work on Monday till midnight and Finally finished last night early. I must say it looks pretty dang good. I told Mark now that we know how to use a paint sprayer and lay flooring we can really do some good. Habitat for Humanity here comes the Barkleys!!!
The kids have been having fun putting it in and are learning how to work for money. The money they are earning is going to help them buy stuff for their rooms. They have earned a couple hundred bucks so far. They have already started window shopping. Emme has a lamp picked out, its really cute. They are excited and so are we.
The heat pump, trim and interior doors are going in this week and the cabinets will be here next week. So we are almost there. We are going out of town this weekend and will fill you up with pictures next week on the progress. TTFN

I guess we need to clear the air!!

2008-07-17T16:16:00.000-07:00

For some reason people are getting the impression that because we went to the Casino that we are also Smoking and Drinking. Lets clear the air... WE ARE NOT!!! If we did I certainly would not hide it, I have no need to. I am who I am, an adult. What bothers me is that people would believe such things before being an adult and coming out and asking me. I can't stand people who try to make others look bad & I can't stand people who judge others before they know the real truth. So be careful how you judge....That really hurts that people would judge me that way.

Ahh the memories...

2008-07-16T12:55:00.000-07:00

Here is a fun little game... leave a comment on my blog of a memory that you and I have had together. It doesn't matter if you've known me for a short time or a long time, anything that you remember! Next, re-post these instructions on your blog and see how many people leave a memory about you. It is pretty funny to read the responses. If you leave a memory about me, I'll assume you are playing and I'll come to your blog and leave one about you. On your mark... get set... blog those memories

House Update

2008-07-15T15:52:00.000-07:00

OK I wasn't going to post any pic's till the house was done but my arm was twisted and here they are. I am really happy with the colors, they are warm and soothing. OH!! the stucco has started too. This process will take about 2-3 weeks and then we will be ready to install UGS and landscaping. Fun...

After 21 Years we finally got smart!!!

2008-07-14T11:21:00.001-07:00

The weekend started out and ended wonderful!!! Friday was our 21st wedding anniversary. I can hardly believe that we have been married for 21 years now. WoW, time goes by so fast! Through the ups and downs of a marriage we are both very happy and wouldn't change it for the world. I LoVe YoU, MaRk ! XoxOXoxOXO
So this is what our weekend entailed (which started Thursday BTW)
Thursday ~ I had scheduled Thursday and Friday off to paint the kids/guest room but they were not primed yet. So, Wednesday night we met with a painter that would come in and prime/seal the drywall Thursday Morning. Excited I was that I could start painting. The kids and I finished picking out their room colors; Angie picked a golden cream color, Emme a very light purple color, MJ a sky blue color and I picked a silvery lavender color for the guest room.
Friday ~ Emily and I got up early and started painting her room. Angie and MJ showed up with Mark a little later. I thought I'd be nice and let them sleep in. I think we got alot done on Friday. We Painted 2 rooms and a bathroom and cleaned the piles of contractors garbage around the house. We did need to go back and do touch-ups but not much.
Since this was our anniversary we decided to go to the casino. Was alot of fun. we always go there knowing we are going to lose but we came home breaking even. That was a fun trip. Mark put in $5 on a $1 slot machine and won over a hundred dollars. I put a $5 on a dollar slot machine and won $75. Of course we played it down a little and cashed out. But it payed for gas, food and fun for a few hours. We had a few hours to spare so we went to the casino up the road. I hit a royal flush and won another $100. If I had not been so cheap I could have won abour $1200. Oh well, all in fun.
Saturday ~ Mark has been looking to get the kids dirt bikes for a while and stumbled accross one on craigslist. So, Saturday morning Mark, Emme and I got up early and went to take a look at it. It was in really good condition and just needs a few repairs so Mark bought it. Emme couldn't keep a straight face for hours. MJ was just a little excited, he'd rather have a 4-wheeler but he's still happy. Mark of course is extremely excited and quickly goes to the Honda shop to buy the parts he needs, a few spokes, oil, new tires and a fender. While at the Honda store we looked at a street bike that I would approve of Mark getting, but only when his dirt bike is paid off and we get in really great shape so we look hot!!
So we played the anniversary card as an all weekend anniversary and went back to the casino up the road. For $10 you can play in the tournament they have each night. We decided to play and the game was Spanish 21. A little different than regular 21 because of the way you can bet. So out of 18 players I took second and won $75. YEAH!! We learned a couple new games and still stayed ahead so it was fun. It will be a while before we go back again, for us it's like going to dinner and a movie.
Sunday ~ Mark dropped me off at the house so I could start painting the closets and do touch-ups. The Painter forgot to prime the closets and it took me about 2 hours to paint Emmes closets. Mark and the kids picked me up to get some lunch and then off to Home depot and we picked up the paint for the final 2 rooms to paint and after 21 years of marriage we finally got smart and bought a paint sprayer! It took no time at all and Mark had painted both rooms, the closets and the last bathroom. It would have taken us all week and I am convinced that it is one of the best investments we have ever made. We only have the master bathroom accent to paint, YEAH!!!
So that was our fun weekend. As soon as I have pic's of the house I'll post them.

House Update

2008-07-09T10:00:00.000-07:00

Well things seem to be going very smoothly now. We are past the 90 days from when our old builder could put any liens on the property. Our new builder is doing a great job getting the stucco done and we should even be painting this week. We some great main colors picked out. The kids have been working on colors for their rooms. We are all getting very excited now, Things are coming together nicely. Heres some updated pics..

I love Moments Like this...

2008-07-03T11:15:00.000-07:00

So some of my favorite memories are when my kids are all having fun together. Stephanie has been home this last week and the kids love having her home and have missed her soo much. It's nice to see them all have a smile on their face again. Almost evey night I have gone to bed and the kids have stayed up watching movies or playing games. This is what I have been waking up to.. I love moments like this.....

Our fun weekend!

2008-06-29T14:26:00.000-07:00

This last weekend we went to Silverton to Pick-up Emily and spend some time with Jer, Stef and Kohen bug. It was Kohen bugs 1st birthday. He is such a honey baked ham!! Honey Baked because his skin is so dark and handsome. Stef went all out for his birthday and really did a great job. She is so artistic!!
Saturday morning I needed to get some excercise time in so Emily and I went for a 2.5 mile hike up at Silver Falls. We hikes the stairs of tears to the lower south falls. Painful, but I made it. We went up early before it got too hot. It was beautiful and I cant wait to do the full trek next year.
Unfortunately between the heat and Angies allergies we decided to call the weekend short and leave saturday Night. Its a good thing we did. It would have been a miserable trip home today. Its 105 degrees already at noon and the AC doesn't work very well, if not at all. It was a fun but short weekend. Check out the pic's....

Will be gone

2008-06-26T17:40:00.000-07:00

We are heading out for a few days to Or-e-gon... To pick up Emme and for Kohens 1st birthday. I am soo excited to see her she has been missed alot. TTFN..

Speed Limit 25MPH

2008-06-22T14:52:00.000-07:00

Yesterday Angie and I went out on an adventure to search for a Chinese recipe. We were going to cook Chinese food last night but could not find the recipe for it so we went to Panda Express to settle our appetites. While we were out we went to some open houses on homes for sale. It was fun and rejuvinated my excitement for our home to be finished. So I thought I'd give you some updated pictures, yes, they are excessive, so enjoy.

This sign is posted in the front of our house. I think the builders got confused and thought it was for our house and not the speed limit. I need a sign that says 60 MPH!

THE NEIGHBORHOOD

THE OUTSIDE

THE FORMAL LIVING, KITCHEN & FAMILY ROOM

THE BATH & BEDROOMS

As you can see we still have lots of work to do. Some of the extras we have added that have caused some delay are the heating elements for under the tile in the kitchen and all the bathrooms, a security system and wiring for our septic. We are underway now and hope to be in the end of July. Yeah!! OH!!! My favorite we are going to put in a little mini golf area in the front yard. So dont forget your putters when you come to stay.

Hangin with the Boys..

2008-06-18T10:34:00.001-07:00

So this week has been very very boy time. Angela went to the Pioneer Trek this week for girls camp and Emme went to Aunt Stef's & Uncle Jer's for a couple weeks. So that leaves me with Big Mark, MJ, PB and Tiger. This is what we have done so far:
Monday - Watched shoot'm up movies
Tuesday - Watched the Celtics win the Basketball championship, YEAH!!
Wednesday - We are working on the new motorcycle trailer Mark bought, getting ready to buy a couple more motorcycles for the kids.
Thursday - Angie comes back so I'll be saved, YEAH!!
Friday - Get out Mani's & Pedi's Done, I'm sure angie will love that.
Saturday - Rest and Relax. Take a nap!!!
Oh, I almost forgot.... Snuggle with PB.

Fathers Day Weekend!

2008-06-16T18:55:00.000-07:00

It was a fun filled relaxing weekend. Friday Jer, Stef, Kohen, Jeffie, Julie and Doug came up for a Fathers day celebration. We had a great time mostly just sitting around talking, swimming, eating or going shopping. And of course we had lots of food. Thank you all for coming up and spending the weekend with us it was fun and I can't wait to do it again ( next time we'll have beds, I promise :) ). Time always goes too fast when company is here to visit, I wish we had a few more extra days.
Mark, Thank you for being such a wonderful father. You have always been there to love and support us, expecially me and I love you lots and lots. I couldn't ask for a better husband to be by my side, through the good times and the bad. Thank you for setting a great example for MJ so he can learn to be a good father too. Your daughters love you lots and I hope they are as lucky as I am to have such a great husband. Thanks for being my best friend. I Love You, XOXOXOXO

UUUGGGHHHHH!!!

2008-06-11T19:20:00.000-07:00

OK So I had to weigh in today . It has been 9 weeks since I started working out. I can't believe it but I gained 5 stinken pounds. We also took measurements and suprise, I have lost inches. So on a good note my trainer says I have probably gained muscle. I sure hope so, otherwise I might be really upset. I am on a 60 week walking program and starting out really slow to build both in speed and distance. My goal is to be able to run a 5K. I have always wanted to do that. So I guess I keep plugging away. Sooner or later somethin' gotta give..