Big Update

I am so glad to say that the last few months are officially behind us. It has been extremely busy with Football, Volleyball, School concerts, Feiseannas, Cake decorating class, Dance classes, Costume making for dance performance, Dance performances, Trip to Spokane, Christmas tree fundraiser, and every day things. Oh and I took a few (12 credits) college classes.. Umm, I wonder if I missed anything.. Below is only a few of the highlights.. Enjoy!

Feile Samhain - 2009

Halloween weekend Emily had a Feis in Portland and did super. She took home several medals, a trophy and a new wig. Feile Samhain is an An Daire Feis put on by Emilys teachers and has a halloween theme. A Feis is a competition for all the dancers in the area including California, Alaska, Utah and Montana. In order for any dancer to move up in their level of dance they must place;
* A Beginner needs a 1st,2nd, or 3rd to move up to Advanced Beginner
* An Advance Beginner needs a 1st or 2nd to move up into Novice;
* A novice dancer needs a 1st in order to move into Prizewinner
* and then there are two more levels after that.
Emily did a great job! Emily danced 8 dances. She started out as a Beginner and moved into several Advance Beginner dances and 1 Novice dance and brought home 3 first place medals, 4 second place medals and 1 third place trophy. Her teachers say that she has lots of potential to go far. As long as shes having fun I don't mind. We can hardly wait for Seattle in March!! A few pictures from the Feis..

Oh No!!

Poor Angie Pangie. A few weeks back Angela decided that she would hop over the doggie gate. It was more like a hop/jump/leap in slow motion. I herd the gate crash and fall (to pieces I might say) but no crying or yelling. I quickly got over to her to find out what happened. She seemed to be in the worst pain ever. I tried to calm her down and we layed her on the floor. I swear she broke her ankle and Mark thought she just had a sprain. Me being the mom of course insisted that she go in to be checked. The hospital was empty and we got in and out in no time. Mark of course was right, just a severe sprain. The doctor gave her some pain meds, crutches and sent her home with a wrapped ankle. Angie discovered that hurdles were not in her future and that next time she should try pole vaulting.

Lion King

A month or so ago Emily's school (music dept) had announced they were going on a field trip to Spokane to see ~ Disney's Lion King on Broadway. Emily almost didn't bring home the announcement, she thought "oh, mom would never want to go." Its a good thing she brought the slip home, I have always wanted to see Lion King - Broadway. So Emily, Angela and I got all dressed-up and took a little trip to Spokane. We followed the bus so we could have some needed girl time. It was a very nice drive. We ate lunch and went to the theater.
Never in my wildest dreams would I love such a production. It was absoutly amazing. During the opening of the program I was in such awe to the beautiful things that we can do with our voices, our bodies and the talents of those who perform. I looked at the girls and we all had tears in our eyes. Had I known to bring the tissue I would have brought lots. So if you ever get a chance to go, go - even the little ones would sit still.
I love spending time with my girls and am thankful everyday that I was blessed with three. I am excited to spend more time with them before they are off and having their own lives. Time goes so quickly. Love you girls and thanks for letting me be your mom!

Emily Turned "13"

Emily is officially a teenager! WOW "13" ! I can hardly believe it. For her Birthday we took her to "Birthday Dinner" which she chose Red Robins; where she had unlimited Raspberry lemonade splash and a burger. Afterwards they sung to her (I think that's her favorite part). For her birthday I made her her favorite cake ~ Pumpkin cake with cream cheese frosting, yummy, I forgot the candles so we used two big ones! Happy Birthday Emily! I am so proud of you and the young woman you are becoming. Keep up the Violin and Irish dance. You are awesome! We love you very much!

Cake Decorating Class

It has been a wild ride the last few months and I am starting to get caught up.
This last month Stephanie, Angela and I took a cake deorcating class. Was lots of fun and lots of getting prepared for class work. We learned how to make really good frosting, a few flowers, leaves and roses. I can't wait till the next class and of course until then...I'll keep practicing how to make roses.
Oh, and Mollie loves the frosting.. What a moocher.

MJ Ended the Season

Football season is over and MJ had a great time. The Panthers B team ended the season going to the "SuperBowl" with an 8-0 record. They did a fantastic job working as a team and playing fair. Unfortunately, they lost the superbowl and after reviewing the plays was a great game. Panthers were proud to be there win or loss. Heres a few pics from the 2009 season.

Volleyball 2009

Emily this year played Volleyball. Her team did not do so well but they had a lot of fun and she made some good friends. She is excited for VB this next year and wants to take a few VB training camps. Personally, half the problem with the team is that there is a no-cut policy which allows anyone and everyone who wants to play, play. Well I don't like that. That is not how life is. You work hard and then you can play hard. Some of the girls just stood around which makes mom like me scream from the bleachers.. Yes, I did..If you want to play, be aggressive and play.. Don't just let the ball land in front of you, you've got to move your feet, and get that ball!! The coach was terrible. She just sat on the sideline while the team got behind 10 points. OH how I wanted to step in and pull players. Anyway, enough of my rant..
Emily will play again next year, She is very excited to keep playing. She learned and lot and has a lot to learn. I am very proud of her trying something new. Keep up the good work Emily!!

MJ Playing Football

This last few months MJ has been playing and Loving football. Day in and day out he goes to practice and never whined about going, whether it was hot at 104 degrees or cold at 32 degrees, MJ always gives it his all. This season has been good to the Panthers B team and are 7-0 ranked 2nd with only 13 PA (points against) in their league after the # 1 Prosser Stallions who are 6-0 with 6 PA.
MJ has been playing many positions; safety, nose guard, right tight end, left tackle, running back, front line return team, kick-off line, punter and kicker. As you can see he is pretty much on the field most of the game. Even when he dislocated his thumb at the beginning of the season he still wanted to continue and play hard. Coach says hes really good for never playing organized football and I know his dad is proud of him. We are excited to see what he will do next year on whether he plays school or Grid football. I vote he plays grid one more year - and we will feed him lots of fruits, veggies and protein so he can grow big!!
Great Job MJ and Good Luck in the Playoffs!!

Big Daddy turns "24"

I know this is a little late but it was Mark's birthday last week. Yes 24 not 42. With so many things going on and all of us running different directions we opted out for a simple birthday. While I was with Emily at dance and Mark was with MJ at Football practice Angela was at home baking a cake. She went all out and her efforts were 150%. This is a picture of the cake Angela was making, and almost turned out perfectly, till..

The cupcakes fell on the floor.

I got a call and Angie, was in tears. "Can't you just buy a cake?" , she asked. I said, "No, it will be fine. Dad will understand, its the effort that counts and no one will know it fell on the floor except us (lol)". She was very much upset. In the end we all got a good laugh and the cake was moist and yummy. I was actually amazed at how well she did, I know I probablly couldn't make a cake that well. The Colors were almost perfectly matching. What they probablly didn't say in the instructions that there were toothpicks keeping those cupcakes together.

So we had a good time together as a family and went to Tony Romas for dinner.

Ahh.. Fall

I just love the Fall season. I love the colors and the fresh crisp air in the morning. The smells of fires burning and the blue blue sky. Fall brings a sense of renewal for me.
I love the peace and quiet that I have some alone time which includes having time to quietly fold my laundry and pick up around the house. Its amazing how much extra time we have when we are not bickering and complaining about just getting it done.
I love the burst of energy I have to get things done like the yard and cleaning the garage (as soon as Mark is off hunting), putting up TP and Towel holders.. doing the little touch-ups..
I love to sew and finish up my UFO's (unfinished objects). My quilt needs to get done this year, I hope. and I get to sew Angela a Homecoming dress with my new surger and Sewing maching that a wonderful person let me borrow.
I love going back to school, all the kids are in school now and we are down to just 2 schools and no more elementary.. YEAH.. Im a Big Kid now! Its been fun getting up early and taking care of the kids lunches and making sure they have enough kisses to get them through the day.
I love excitement of watching our kids play sports. MJ loves Football and has practice almost everyday for a couple hours (even in the 100 degree weather). Emily is doing Volleyball and Irish Dance. Between the two she is going, going and going. And Dad Loves Watching Football on TV.
I love General Conference and being spiritually recharged. This is my most favorite. I love listening to the Prophet speak the words we need to hear. The messages the counselors and Apostles give us. Conference fills my heart with love and graditude for what I have to be thankful for, which is so very much.

A Camping we will go...

UMM, Fishing, Campfires, Smores, Swimming, Relaxing & visiting family.. What more could we ask for? The last week was great. I forget how much we love to camp and realized that we must go more. Saturday, Mark and the kids woke up early for the Perch tournament. Out of 13 boats Mark, Angela and MJ came in 5th place. That morning while Mark was getting ready to go he found $28.00 in his pocket pants that he hasn't worn in over 3 years. So we bought our raffle tickets because we knew that we would be lucky, and we were. Mark won - a coffee maker (that we gave away), an Eagle statue, A microwave and a really nice electric boat motor for trolling. It was like Christmas. He put that motor on the boat and went a fishin'. He has wanted one forever!
Was nice to have the family all together.

By the Campfire.. My children's many talents...

Here are a few pictures. Unfortunately not many, my battery was low.

Will add later.

MJ Football Tryouts

Saturday morning was football tryouts for MJ. The Tri-Cities has great programs for the kids. They really like to keep them busy. Dad is very excited for MJ to play real football and will be volunteering. I am happy it will keep them both busy and off the computer games.
Heres a few picks from tryouts.

WARM-UPS

READY- SET

TACKLE

HIKE

I am super excited to watch MJ play this year. He starts practice today 5-7 every day till school starts and then practices 4 days a week during school and games on Saturday. Great Job MJ for making the team!!

Our very neglected Blog..

It has been a very busy month. The recap....

Week of June 1st ~
A busy week with Dr.s Appointments and allergy shots. Angela had her braces off but the retainers had a problems so we had to go in and get refitted. We both had allergy shots and I was lucky enough to get my boobs smashed into the x-ray machine. Yes I had a mammogram. I have had a lump for a while but luckily enough it is just a swollen lymph node. Not a big deal unless it starts growing larger.
As the school year came to an end Mark and Emily had lots of fun carnivals at school. Emily went on a field trip to Moses Lake Aquatic park with her orchestra/band classes. Its a fun trip they do at the end of each year. Emily has been taking extra lessons this week to prepare for her first Feis. She did very well for her first competition in Portland ~ Oregon state Championship Feis 2009 ~ First Feis, Reel ~ 2nd Place ; First Feis, Light Jig ~ 2nd Place; First Feis, Single Jig ~ 2nd Pace; First Feis Special, Reel Special ~ 1st Place; Beginner Figure, 2 Hand Reel ~ 1st Place. We found out that this is going to be lot of fun and can't wait till the next Feis in July.
Week of June 8th ~ The last week of school. With the excitement still fresh in my mind I went to the dance board meeting and was elected the "costume coordinator" and "Feis coordinator" , so I have been extra busy with cleaning and organizing the costumes that were handed over to me. I love doing this type of work and this is a small scale compared to working on the "Fiddler on the roof" performance for the Oregon City Stake, which consisted of about 130 performers. So I am excited to be involved with at project again and I have lots of plans.
Again this week we had shots and Emily had several dance practices again.
Week of June 15th ~ Again lots of Dr's appts and lots of Dance practices. Saturday, The AnDaire Irish dancers performed at the Prosser Scottish Festival. It was fun to see the different dance groups. This week we also started packing for girls camp, ExCitInG!!
Week of June 22 ~ Again Lots of Dr's appts.. I think they are all done picking on me, except for my shots of course. Monday, Angela left for girls camp, She is excited to be a YCL this year. I cant believe that she only has 1 more year left, how sad. We all love girls camp. Hopefully they will be some of the best memories the girls will have. Emily left for girls camp on Tuesday. She has been waiting for girls camp for years!! I asked her for fun .. How long have you been waiting to go to girls camp, she said " oh, for about 12 years now". Seriously this girl has been excited for camp. Thursday I kicked the boys out of the house for TWO DAYS. MJ was so excited to go on a trip motorcycle riding and camping. He only had a few crashes and can't wait to go again, so that's a good sign. Friday the girls came home from camp, exhausted. Saturday, the girls and I, took a trip down to Molalla for a family reunion on my moms side. Was a nice time, we spent lots of time visiting with my Aunts, Uncles and cousins whom we haven't seen for a few years.
Week of June 29th ~ Shots this week of course.. Dance practice at my house for 6 girls learning the 3 hand Reel for the Feis coming up in Seattle in a couple of weeks.
And in between all of this we have the Yard to work on. I think its coming around, not as fast as I would like, but we have all been very busy. Mark bought a boat that we are going to resale after he cleans it up a little.
So that is it in a nutshell. Hope everyone has a safe 4th of July.

Busy, Busy, Busy Barkleys

Its been very busy around here. Getting yard work done, having company, doing yardwork with company, Getting ready for Emilys first Feis, Emilys last Band and orchestra concerts. I am looking forward to this weekend ~ more yard work.
It is coming together, so thats good and the grass is starting to be green on our side of the fence now!!
Someday when I get my camera fixed I will post some pics.
Have a great week.. TTFN

Emily

Yesterday Emily stayed home from school. It is not like Emme to miss school even when she is sick. Igot up early to take her to orchestra and she was asleep. Angie said she tried to wake her several times so I knew she needed some extra sleep so I let her sleep in till 10:00 hich is very unusual. Anyways, What she did was so cute. mark and I took MJ to get his scout shirt and when we came home she cleaned up our room and gave us cute little cards. She said " you should have seen how it put a smile on your face" . And it did. She is so thoughtful and I thank her for the example she is to me. Boy do I need to become more child like in Christ teachings.
Thank you Emme.

Tis the Season..

To do yard work, fa la la la la, la la la la
Scrub the windows and the tile work, fa la la la la, la la la la.
Now we start our day with gladness, fala la la la la lala la la la la.
No more lawn with yucky brownness
Soon well have the most glorious greeness, fa la la, lalala, la la la.

I once thought we would never have a yard. We rented this thing-a-ma-jigger from West Richland Rentals that tilled the top layer of the dirt, (eating all our dead weeds of course) and smoothed it back out into a wonderful layer of dirt (weeds and grass excluded). It was amazing!! We worked all day Saturday through the rain and into the night. Was soo much fun. The kids and I pulled weeds as Dad used the magic tool. We started to have some showers, ok rain, And wouldn't you know it ~ The kids started singing and dancing in the rain, got very muddy and then insisted to give everyone hugs to eachother, even dad and I. Luckily the washer has a super duty, extra soiled cycle for washing. Unfortunately, the next day neither Mark or I could move. My arms were numb and my body so sore that it hurt to even walk. That will teach me to get out of shape, HA! Its a good thing we have sun for the next week cuz theres more stuff to do. I sense a never ending project coming soon..

I can't stand it any longer!

Its 3:00 and time is SOOOOOO dragging on today. I am to be at the airport in 45 min. to pick my hubby up from the airport. I am SOOOOOO excited to see him. He has been gone to South Carolina for almost 2 long weeks. It is nice to have a small break from each other once in awhile but 2 weeks is way too long. I SOOOOOO love my Husband.

Today I found Joy in....

...The wonders of Gods beautiful Gifts, finding a Pink Dogwood tree that is full of color and life.
...Angelas beautiful smile when shes told that she gets her braces off at the next visit.
...The chilled air that freezes my tootsies to let me know that I am alive.
...The beautiful deep blue sky that invites me outside.
...that I miss my Husband.
...Seeing Stephanie Smile again and having her be at home.
...Knowing my children are becoming strong, independant and responsible.
...Having Angela drive me around to Dr.s appts. She gets allergy tested today.
...Having more energy today than I've had in the last week.

Hip, Hip, Hooray!!!

I am total miserable with a cold and allergies, yuck, YuCk, YUCK!!! My am so stuffy and my face is soo itchy and red its awful. But I am determined to find the joy, so here it goes.....

~ My allergy shots start on Tuesday.

~ The sun is out and it is going to be a great weekend and no rain in site for the next 10 days!!

~ We will be home this weekend. After the last two weekends traveling it will be great to be home.

~ A big hip, Hip, Hooray the irrigation system is finally on. That means that we have a ton of yardwork to do which is exciting. Weeds and dirt are no fun to look at.

~ Angela's last day of driving school is today! Great job Angie!

~ My Heavenly Father loves and watches out for us!

~ Realizing that finding joy is not always about the material things in life. Finding joy is a state of spiritual well-being. A comfort in putting your worries in the Lords hand and knowing it will work out. Trusting Him and Surrendering control scares me and that is something I need to work on.

~ Starting a list of joys and realizing what needs to be done to find that joy.

Me and My mom! ~ Snuggle Time!!

I am soo happy that my Emme still gives me colored hugs and kisses. They always put a smile on my heart. Thank you Emme. Oh how I love you too! XOXOXO

Repentance & Forgiveness

Admit it.... Nobody is perfect! After teaching a Primary Lesson about Repentance I paused to ponder. Is there a difference between Forgiveness and Repentance? I believe so and I believe they go hand-in-hand.

As becoming a member of the church the 4th article of faith states, "We believe that the first principles and ordinances of the Gospel are: first, Faith in the Lord Jesus Christ; second, Repentance; third, Baptism by immersion for the remission of sins; fourth, Laying on of hands for the gift of the Holy Ghost."

Repentance is making a confession to the Lord. Believing that our sins will be forgiven. It then is up to us to seek repentance for forgiveness from our Heavenly Father and do all we can do to change. As teaching the children, the steps to repentance is easy; First, we must feel sorry; Second, we ask forgiveness; Third, we right the wrong and Fourth, we don't repeat the wrong. Thankfully we can partake of the sacrament and renew this covenant every Sunday and have the atoning sacrifice of Jesus Christ.

Forgiveness is to pardon or excuse someone from blame for an offense or misdeed. The Lord commands us to forgive those who offend or hurt us. Forgiveness is much more difficult because it requires of us to have courage to ask forgiveness or the wrongdoer has not yet gotten to the point of asking for forgiveness and continues to offend. I do believe forgiveness is due if the wrongdoer makes an attempt by stopping the offense and they have a change in heart. You'll know when that happens, you can feel it (unfortunately, this doesn't usually happen overnight).

Of course, Dr. Lauras input below.



One thing to remember, we do not always realize that we have offended someone or maybe, they might even feel what they did was not offensive at all. But I would say that if a person has voiced their opinion and feelings are hurt that would be a pretty good indication that forgiveness is needed.

24 things to do in 24 hours ~ Spring Break Style

So for spring break we went to our favorite Beach ~ Seaside! We love to stay at the Sand & Sea. It right on the beach and the whole front view wall is solid window. Even though it was only an overnighter it was fun filled. Here are some of the things we did; started out our journey and the truck needed a quick repair ~ played the alphabet game ~ played I spy ~ made it all the way to Hillsboro for lunch at McD's where we laughed till we cried ~ arrived at Seaside ~ checked in, saw the pool ~ went for a walk ~ bought kites ~ rode the bumper cars ~ rode the tilt-a-whirl ~ shopped for Emme's swimsuit ~ shopped for Angies sweatshirt(she forgot a coat, silly girl) ~ Flew the kites ~ got cold ~ went swimming ~ ate hot bown of chili to warm our bones ~ woke up ~ visited the Aquarium and fed the sea lions ~ Fed the seagulls a left over box of Fruit loops, french bread, oyster crackers & saltine crackers. Afterwards Angie runs through the seagulls Just like she used to when she was 5 ~ Bought Souvenirs from Aquarium ~ Shopped the Broadway shops ~ went to the Arcade ~ Got sweatshirts for Boys & Steph ~ rode the Bumper cars again ~ rode the tilt-a-whirl again ~ went to the best salt water taffy store ever and bought pounds of taffy ~ ~ visited the Aunts and Uncles in Portland for dinner and then headed home ~ All in 24 hours. WHEW! But it was way fun. I can't wait to go again soon.

Spring Break is here!

I am so, so, so glad for spring break this year. I have really been struggling with staying ontop of life and unfortunately I keep falling off. It is hard to juggle being a Wife, a Mom, A housekeeper and a full time job. I hate it! So this spring break I took off work to be a full time mom. It has been great. We have been doing some spring cleaning and will be having fun time too. Last night we went to the movies and saw ~ Race to Witch Mountian, a perfect family movie that even Dad wanted to see, YEAH! Later this week we are going to the beach. Exciting!! And then home for Conference, Excitinglerestedly!!!!!

"W.O.W."

Well Emily has done it again! She has received another WOW card from her teachers. She has been on Honor Roll with straight A's again for the 2nd Quarter. The Principal and his Vice Principals cooked breakfast for the Student and their parents in appreciation for the students hard work and good efforts towards being a superb student (there was about 10 students). Emily's LA, Math & Science teachers sat with us and had lots of good things to say about Emily. I am impressed with the respect that these teachers and staff have for their students. In the past I have seen too many times teachers talking down to students like they are nobody, and then they become nobodys. Not here, Everyone is worth the effort. A big shout out to E.M.S. for being the best school ever!!
Below is pictures of this years 6th grade Orchestra and Band Pictures.

Finding "Joy in the Journey"

I'll ask forgiveness now for the long post..:)

Last night was Relief Society Enrichment night. I have to tell you Sister Marsha and her gang go ALL out. Let me tell you they take it to extremes. Everyone was given passports, upon entering the gym you were given a candy Lei (we are the Candy Mountain Ward) and welcomed. We had to go through the line, put our purse through the scanner and get our itinerary. Was way cute. Marsha and her husband have an art of making cardboard decor. Hopefully I can get pictures. But they made a plane, Train, a bus and a Huge Cruise ship as an entrance to each using the exit doors from the gym.
Dinner was served and we were off to our destinations, of course the sisters that chose the bus had a slight delay in their journey. The bus broke down and were assigned to a different means of transportation. So, off we went to our travel destinations (our 3 rotating classes, in 3 groups; plain, train & cruise ship).
In the first class, Sister King taught us about how to survive a crisis. She has read several books about survivors and the one thing that she learned was they #1, all had something to live for and #2 had faith.
The second class taught by my VT Companion, Sis Rex, who is just plain crazy. She took us on a safari trip into some jungle. Was cute and she played a superb guide. She spoke about Legos and Longerie. Most of us has had kids know that being a mother can be hectic, especially in those younger years when they depend on you for everything. She had some good tips like ~ get out of the house, going for a walk a breath of fresh air does wonders ~ get the kids dressed up and take them over to grandmas ~ or just go for a drive. (I sat their remembering those good ole' days and missed them, as hectic as they were. I loved it when my kids were little.) Then we were given the motivation talk on how to love yourself no matter what size you are. That your husbands deserve to see you with your hair done nice, nails done and also likes it when you in your birthday suite. So don't be hard on yourself, he loves you no matter what size you are. This talk was motivating for me. The next day I went out and got a hair cut, Mani and Pedi done. And, let me tell you it does make a difference in how I feel.
The Final class, Sister Sampson spoke about how her and her husband went to BYU Hawaii and he finished up his pre-med and had been applying to several med schools. It didn't work out the way it had planned and they had a 1 yr delay. During this time was difficult and didn't understand why they had worked so hard and not accepted into school. They applied for a great school in Israel and were accepted right away. During this 1 year delay they had met several people that either were moving to Israel or Had family in Israel. Sis Sampson kept a good diary of the events and shared some of those with us. It really touched me. Sometimes we don't always understand the trials we have until we look back on them and see the blessing that came from them. I so have a testimony of that!
After the mini-classes were done we all arrived at our final destination.
There we spoke about finding the joy in our journeys and Sis Marsha read the following poem, relating to life:

It's like... planning a fabulous vacation trip - to Italy. You buy a bunch of guide books and make your wonderful plans. The Coliseum. The Michelangelo David. The gondolas in Venice. You may learn some handy phrases in Italian. It's all very exciting.

After months of eager anticipation, the day finally arrives. You pack your bags and off you go. Several hours later, the plane lands. The stewardess comes in and says, "Welcome to Holland."

"Holland?!?" you say. "What do you mean Holland?? I signed up for Italy! I'm supposed to be in Italy. All my life I've dreamed of going to Italy."

But there's been a change in the flight plan. They've landed in Holland and there you must stay.

The important thing is that they haven't taken you to a horrible, disgusting, filthy place, full of pestilence, famine and disease. It's just a different place.

So you must go out and buy new guide books. And you must learn a whole new language. And you will meet a whole new group of people you would never have met.

It's just a different place. It's slower-paced than Italy, less flashy than Italy. But after you've been there for a while and you catch your breath, you look around.... and you begin to notice that Holland has windmills....and Holland has tulips. Holland even has Rembrandt's.

But everyone you know is busy coming and going from Italy... and they're all bragging about what a wonderful time they had there. And for the rest of your life, you will say "Yes, that's where I was supposed to go. That's what I had planned."

And the pain of that will never, ever, ever, ever go away...because the loss of that dream is a very very significant loss. But...if you spend your life mourning the fact that you didn't get to Italy, you may never be free to enjoy the very special, the very lovely things ... about Holland.

Again, I love the ward that we are in and the friends that I am making. This is my goal this year to find joy in the journey. Let me tell you it takes a lot of work to remember what you are thankful for and sometimes it is the pile of dirty cloths to be thankful that you have a family. Sorry for the long post. Somethings just cant be summarized in little details.

Let's do a recap of the week...

First of all I hate loosing an hour of sleep. My body seems to just shut down. Didn't help that I had some kind of a bug this week.

MJ ~ Mj didn't have school Monday, Tuesday & Wednesday due to parent/teacher conferences. I have to say I really love Marks teacher and I think she is the best teacher ever; and I have had a few share of teachers with all my kiddo's. She really has a way for her kids to strive and do their best. Mark says she has never, ever gotten upset. Mark is doing great in school and loves math science & reading. He took a test that scored him reading as a 7.2 grader. I love the fact that all my kids love to read. And I don't mind that they stay up late reading books as long as they can wake up smiling in the morning. Great Job Markie!!

Emme ~ This week Emilys church basketball team played in the tournament on Thursday night. They won the 1st game and went on to play the 2nd and final game of the stake playoffs. That was two games in one night. She is doing great and has really gotten aggressive. She plays great defense and shuts her opponent down every time. I have to say that I was suprised to see her want to even play basketball and I am so proud of her getting out of her comfort zone. A big YeeHaa for Emme!!

Angela ~ Oh my goodness peoples... stay off the road, I repeat, stay off the road. Angela has started drivers ed and now has her permit. I have the privilege of teaching her how to drive, so she should be a pro in no time. She is excited to drive and is doing great. this week we practiced on the gas, break and turns. Today we went out on the hwy. Not bad for her first couple times. I am sure she will be a great driver and in a few months well have another driver in the house. Yeah Angie, Whoot, whoot!!!

Stephanie ~ Life is never dull with Stephanie in the house... She is keeping busy with work, dance, institute, going out with the sister missionaries, hangin' with the boys and helping her friends make a video. I have posted the videos, they are great and I am impressed with the fine young talented, soon to be, up and coming movies stars. A big shout out to the Russian Diva!!

Better in Time Video Project ~ Bloopers


Better in Time Video Project ~

Go Candy MT Basketball

Tonight was the Richland Young Women's Basketball tournament. Candy Mountain ward goes onto next week. I have been impressed with Emily's learning curve. At the beginning of the season she was so shy, arms by her side and not moving around much (heck, I would be too if I was the youngest, smallest player out there). I have to tell you a totally different girl was playing tonight. Emily had several rebounds and was aggressive on defense (offense still needs a little work). I am soo impressed with the girls in her ward. The last quarter of the game they made a point to get Emily the ball so she could shoot it. I about cried. As a mom you want you children to be and do their best, you want them to be successful, to be accepted and build confidence. They were giving Emily this chance and they did it as a team. It was the sweetest thing I have ever seen, and let me tell you she is soo excited for next weeks game. She said shes going to play better and harder, I love it. Not bad for her first season. Great job Emme!!

F a M i L y

"A family is strong when all its members are working together and, like the rope, cannot be broken easily. But when individual members no longer work in unity with each other, the family becomes weak, just as the rope did, and can more easily be broken. Everyone in the family benefits when individual members are working together."

This analogy says it all. When thought upon I think it comes down to the love and respect one feels for your family or for another. As the proclamation of the family it states "By divine design, fathers are to preside over their families in love and righteousness and are responsible to provide the necessities of life and protection for their families. Mothers are primarily responsible for the nurture of their children. In these sacred responsibilities, fathers and mothers are obligated to help one another as equal partners. Extended families should lend support when needed."
* As I look back on the past year there was no respect in my immediate family for my family. As I wanted so badly for my daughter to come home, others thought differently and that is where the rope was weakened. Choices were made feeling were hurt.
* A few weeks ago.. Its tax time. Had an issue with someone claiming our daughter on their taxes. Our daughter lived with them 5 1/2 months out of last year. Would you think that maybe she would claim herself or that her parents would claim her (she was 17 at the beginning of the year). Love and respect plays into this also. To show respect we would treat other with respect and do as you would do. Call and ask.
* This last weekend I received a disturbing email. We all have a choice in how we live. That is why we are here on this earth. Whether we choose a certain lifestyle or religion it is our choice. But what we don't do is bash on ones view because "it is not what I believe in or how we live". Again, This comes down to love and respect for an individual and for the family.
I am sure I can go on and people can go on about me too. The point is that if we do not treat our families with the utmost respect for each individual family we have nothing. Families will grow and soon my children will have their families and so forth. Each family is different. Each has there own ideas, traditions, foods they like, activities they do and values. It is when one family thinks less of a family because they don't think or do the same is a lack of respect and like the rope will loose its strength.
I am sorry for my rant. A quote to leave you with, "There are no perfect families only very good ones."

Angela Kay

Angela ~ /a-nge-la, an-gela/ is pronounced AN-je-lah, It is of Greek orgin, and its meaning is " messenger of God; angel". Angela is adorable, compassionate, thoughtful, charitable, spiritual, independent, steadfast and immovable, creative, lovely, warm & snugly, considerate, willing to take a stand, dramatic, responsible and very, very loved.

Some memories of Angela:

When she was in early elementary school she seriously thought her name was Angelina. She was so convinced that her teacher thought so too. Teacher had her name on the desk as such and even on her papers. Once while talking with her teacher I noticed that she was calling Angela, Angelina. I looked at her a little confused as we were at Angela's desk I knew that we were definitely speaking of Angela. The teacher and I just laughed and she told me that Angela had corrected her and that her name was Angelina. I just smiled. Angela loved to play pretend and still does... Oh No, The start of my Drama Queen.

I love this picture of Angela on Easter Saturday. Angela has always loved the outdoors. I have lots of memories of her taking a mud bath at her grandmas, helping little birdies that flew into the window, playing with the dogs, catching froggies, swimming at the Lake, going fishing and jumping on the trampoline. Angela is a softie when it comes to animals and the outdoors.

Here is Angela at her 8th grade graduation right before we moved to the Tri-Cities. She works hard in school and loves to read books. Alot of books. If she gets her nose in a book good luck getting her out of it before shes done. She loves to learn both in school and at church. She is soo smart! I love the fact that I can go to her and she has an answer for me. She is a wonderful example to those around her.

Yesterday was Angelas "16th" Birthday. This Picture was taken of Angela a few months ago. Let me tell you.. This girl amazes me! When she sets her mind to do something she can accomplish anything. She is truly an example to those around her. She is a Daughter of God and is not afraid to stand up for her standards of living the Gospel. I can not express enough how much I love her and am so thankful that she has been entrusted into our care. She is truly a messenger from God and has been a blessing to have her in our lives.

Calgon, Where are you?

It has been a long and stressful week so far and its only Wednesday! What the heck. I am still working on my list of things to get done and they are prioritized in my head. It seems like the list never seems to end. I'm tired would really like to run away. I hate those days! Yucky Phooey!! If I only had more time.. (WHOW, Epiphany.. I'm going to keep a list of my todo's on my blog and then keep it updated as I either 1) Post something todo or 2) take one off that I've done. I'll never forget now because I am a blogoholic and check mine daily for some strange reason I have this need to feel connected. Random thought, sorry.) Finding joy in my journey is just not happening this week. I just need to take a hot bath with book in hand, lock the door, read and relax. Calgon, Where are you? I know better days are ahead, really they are. Right?

MJ Basketball Game 7 Final Game

Well it was a good game. The team worked hard to get 5 points on the board. The game was reffed terribly. I don't think that the kids reffing had a clue of what was going on. Teams are to play man to man and this team played zone. It seems we have a few coaches that don't know how to follow the rules. Im just glad that its over an MJ can play on a real team next year. So off to Soccer we will go. I am excited to watch him play he loves sports and does a great job working as a team. Also I am hoping for a basketball hoop so we can play together as a family. Gotta love it.

MJ Basketball Game 6 ~ 13 - 21

Another great game played. Was a fun game to watch but I mostly had fun watching Kohen take his shots. What a ham he is.. MJ has one more game then Basketball season is over. bummer. We have lost again this week but the lessons learned are worth more and the kids are having fun playing. Great Job MJ!!

Excuses no more!!

So last night I took a class on Psychology of weight loss. It was pretty interesting and how we are our own worst enemy. I would say that the thing I took home was the fact that we always seem to quit just when we are starting to see the results, ie.. jeans fit better, have energy, feel healthier. This is the time when our body is starting to change but there is no drop on the scale (at least that's the way it is for me). So what do we do, for me I start telling myself it will never happen and then I give up. What I should be doing is sticking to it. Stop making excuses and stop the vicious circle. My body is a temple and I need to take care of it. I must never give up no more..
Here is a you tube video that I thought was inspiring .

Stock in Tampax

OK it used to be a joke that with having 3 girls I would have to buy stock in Tampax. Its not a joke any more.. Our goal this year is to work on our 3 month & 1 yr supply. Everything looks good until I try to figure out how many boxes of Tampax we will need. Oh My Goodness.... Not even funny. Mind you these are the Costco size boxes. We will need 72 boxes.. Thats 5,184 tampons.. Where in the world am I going to put all of them? Attic? Maybe unbox and seal tight them? I don't know.. What I do know it that this has to be the most expensive item on our list.
I took a class that Relief Society is having every month about preparedness. Sister Stowell is a great teacher. The goal is to get the basics and a 3 month supply and add to it. The long term goal is that you have a 1 1/2 year supply and stock pile the items that you always use. When she sees a good deal on something she buys it. Eventually you will have your own little grocery store. Mind you she has been doing this for years now and it does take a while to develop but once you do it saves alot because you eventually only need to buy when its a good deal because you already have every thing you need at home. That is the long term goal. For now I have made a great chart to get us started and we will work on it a little at a time, but at least e are working on it. Now, Go buy that stock!!

MJ Basketball Game 5 ~ 15 - 22

It was a better game this time. The kids were well matched up and did a wonderful job. MJ 's energy had returned and made lots of rebounds. Lots of fun. Final score ~ us 15 them 22. Great D Kids..

Way to Go Steelers!!

OK, So it has been a long tradition int he family that when ever Mark has a game on I root for the opposite team he does. So yesterday, I started rooting for the Arizona Cardinal's. I like Kurt Warner, Hes a great guy and the girls and I think hes pretty cute. But I really tried this time. I started to but I couldn't (Either way we would have been happy no matter who wins as long as a good game was played). I got a little involved in the game and let it slip on who I really wanted to win. Everyone looked at me .. Mom, are you rooting for the Steelers?? I was caught, what could I say? Except, YEP! It was a good game. I called the final score Steelers 23 Cardinals 20. I was surprised how close I was, except reversed in score. Luckily the Steelers pulled it out and made a blessed touchdown. Amen!!

MJ Basketball Game 4 ~ 21 - 18

YEAH!! The cougars won their first game.. 21 to 18. They did a great job and were matched perfectly both in size and in skill. It was great to see the boys be excited again about basketball. MJ has been sick this week and I was surprised that he did so well. He was good at getting the rebounds and blocking the shots. You could tell he wasn't up to par the last half of the game but he stuck with it. Great Job MJ!!

COFFEE FILTERS: Not just for making coffee....

OK This is one of thoes forwards that I thought I would share. Great Idea.

1. Cover bowls or dishes when cooking in the microwave.
Coffee filters make excellent covers.
2. Clean windows and mirrors. Coffee filters are
lint-free so they'll leave windows sparkling.
3. Protect China Separate your good dishes by putting a
coffee filter between each dish.
4. Filter broken cork from wine. If you break the cork
when opening a wine bottle, filter the wine through a coffee filter.
5. Protect a cast-iron skillet. Place a coffee filter in
the skillet to absorb moisture and prevent rust.
6. Apply shoe polish. Ball up a lint-free coffee filter.
7. Recycle frying oil. After frying, strain oil through a
sieve lined with a coffee filter.
8. Weigh chopped foods. Place chopped ingredients in a
coffee filter on a kitchen scale.
9. Hold tacos. Coffee filters make convenient wrappers
for messy foods.
10. Stop the soil from leaking out of a plant pot. Line
a plant pot with a coffee filter to prevent the soil from going through the
drainage holes.
11. Prevent a Popsicle from dripping. Poke one or two
holes as needed in a coffee filter.
12. Do you think we used expensive strips to wax eyebrows?
Use strips of coffee filters.
13. Put a few in a plate and put your fried bacon, French
fries, chicken fingers, etc on them. Soaks out all the grease.
14. Keep in the bathroom. They make great "razor
nick fixers."

Coffee filters ...who knew! And you can buy 1,000 at
the Dollar Tree for a buck.

Daddy Daughter bonding

Last night Angela and Mark had a daddy daughter night at Mutual. They had so much fun getting to know each other better. They played a few games and Mark had to do Angies hair and nails. They were the first to finish. Then Mark had to answer questions to see how well he knew Angela. He got 1 answer right. They came home and asked me the questions and I only got 1 right. Here is the list of questions and answers about Angela:
What is your favorite TV Show? What not to wear
If you could go anywhere on vacation, where would it be? Hawaii
What is your favorite food? Spinach
If you had 2 hours of free time, what would you want to do? Play the Piano
What is your favorite music group/artist? Mutemath
Who is your favorite Disney character? Cinderella
If you could have one wish, what would it be? I would wish for a lizard.
What is your favorite subject in school? Seminary & Science.
I would have never guessed. We are so lucky to have Angela in our home. She is a doll. I can't tell you enough how much we love her and the spirit she brings into a room is enlightening. She is always trying her hardest at what ever she does and as she tries new things she is finding joy in her journey. She smiles alot and knows how to have fun. Love you Ange!!

MJ Basketball Game 3 - 16 - 38

The team took another lose on Saturday. I missed most of the game but watched the 4th qtr. they did a great job. We have a player that always has the ball and makes off the wall shots. One player didn't show because hes ashamed of his team but showed up late and the coach let him play. I would have sat him on the bench the whole game. But I take the game a little too serious I guess. MJ is learning what a team is and that good. They all do a pretty good job and they are getting better. Final score us 16 them 38

A Dr. Laura moment..

Tis the season..

Tis the season to play basketball. Emily and Angela played their first young womens church basketball game tonight. They did a great job. Reminds me of the day.. Fun to watch. Final score. Candy Mountian Ward 22 Crestview ward 16.. Great job girls!

QUOTE OF THE WEEK:

“High on the wall, in the castle of your dreams of success, hangs the picture of what you want to be. Always keep that picture hanging there. See yourself where you intend to be. Night and day dream of what you intend to be, for your dreams interpret your intentions always. All successes are, at first dreams.” Fred Van Amburgh

I thought I would share this inspiring message. Dare to Dream !!!

MJ Basketball Game 2 ~ 18 - 38

Another fun game to watch. All the boys did much better this time with defense and blocking the shot. Markie again made the first 2 points and dribbled the ball to the other end and made the shot. He is really good. I love to watch his excitement when he plays. He was one of the top scorers in the game and Mark said he was the best defensive player on the team. Both games its been good that he has been man on man against someone who is much bigger than he is. It will make him a better player. He does a great job in blocking these bigger more aggressive players, In fact when he does they can't shot the ball and ends up having to pass it. It will be fun to watch him grow into a better player as time goes on. Next game Saturday, Jan 24th..

Thank You Mark

Mark, I know I am not always the easiest person to live with and we have our up's and downs. But I really am the luckiest person in the world to have you. Life has its times where we look forward to spending every moment together to absolutely not wanting to be around that person because they irritate the heck out of you. We seem to have alot of those days lately and I'm sorry for being distant. I Love you! I really do. I am really just trying to focus on myself this year that I forget to focus on you too. Hang in there with me, hopefully I'll be a new person by the time were through. Thank you for the beautiful roses and putting a smile in my heart.

Quote for today

A customer sent this to me in one of those pass along emails. I found it inspiring so I thought I would share:

St. Theresa's Prayer:

'May today there be peace within. May you trust that you are exactly where
you are meant to be. May you not forget the infinite possibilities that
are born of faith in yourself and others. May you use the gifts that you
have received, and pass on the love that has been given to you. May you be
content with yourself just the way you are. Let this knowledge settle into
your bones, and allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise and
love. It is there for each and every one of us.'

MJ Basketball Game 1 ~ 14 - 32

MJ is playing Basketball through Richland Parks and Rec. This is his first year playing and dad is helping as assistant coach. MJ's team is made up of mostly 4th & 5th graders. They play 9 different schools within the district and there a total of approximatly 50 teams of K-5 and both boys and girls teams.
Its fun to watch these kids learn to play . We have a very little team. MJ being the tallest. The team we played Saturday was big. Since they play man on man and MJ is the biggest kid on the team they will put him with the biggest kid from the other team to guard. To give you an idea this kid was about 2 times MJ's size and about a foot and a half taller. There were about 3 or 4 large kids on the team. They scored 6 points right off the bat and then MJ got the ball, dribbled it all the way down to the otherend of the court and made a layup. I was amazed. I knew he loved basketball and has takes his ball to school with him almost everyday but I didn't realize how good he has gotten. MJ scored the first 2 points. YEAH MJ!!!!! And then I about lost it watching the rest of the game. The other team kept triple teaming our little guys and, We have a good coach but not as aggressive as I would like and didn't point this out the fact to the refs. Me on the other hand was calling it out left and right. I was about ready to jump over there and take over. I had to remind myself they are learning this isn't school ball.. All in fun. Final score us 14 - them 32.

Our Christmas Vacation

Its been a while so excuse me if I ramble....
December 24th, Christmas Eve ~ Today is the start of our Christmas vacation. We left on time, amazingly enough, by 11:00am. With all the big snow storms we have been having, I being the paranoid passenger insisted we stop and find chains, I-84 had just opened the day before and was uncertain about the conditions. We did hit a pretty good patch of ice and before the truck slipped off the Highway Mark used his special powers and put it in 4 wheel drive. We arrived safety over the river and through the woods at grandmothers house and took a nice winters nap.

December 25th, Christmas Day ~ This has to be one of the best Christmases for me. Today we woke up about 4:00am and went to the homeless shelter in Albany, Oregon. It amazes that year after year this is what the kids love to do on Christmas Morning. They have learned the true meaning of Christmas and it isn't the presents (although they still think their pretty great) its about what we can give to others who have less than us. To celebrate Christmas serving others as Christ served. As I watched the kids prepare breakfast my heart was filled with Joy. Now that the kids are getting older they all had an items that they served. Grandpa Widing serves the syrup, oranges, candy canes, and milk/juice in the cafeteria where the kids are not allowed. Mark and I worked where needed. Every year we are getting quicker at preparing breakfast and the homeless are always soo thankful to have a hot meal.
Afterwards, Pastor Bailey gave us a tour of the newly finished family housing units. It was nice to see that there is a safe place for people to go if they need to and a much better facility than the broken down building they were in before. I am thankful for all my blessing, which are abundant.

December 26th ~ This morning we went to visit Aunt Lori, Uncle Mike, Aunt Kim & Uncle Aaron. We didn't get to stay too long because we also went to see "Bedtime Stories" with Grandma and Grandpa Widing. After the movie we went out to Sharies for some Hot Cocoa. It was nice to see all of them.

December 27th ~ Spent the morning getting ready for the "Big Ski Trip". Laundry packed and everything sorted for that stop on the way back through town. Mark & MJ went to Uncle Aarons and Aunt Kimmies to help plumb for the new dishwasher and disposal they got for Christmas. the girls and I visited for a short while before we went back up to Portland for the get together with Marks buddies at Ron and Lenas. His friends are doing great and we even got to see Randy this year. Its always fun to reminisce about "the good-old-days".

December 28th ~ Up to the mountain we go. We made great timing. The roads were clear from the warm-up and the rain. We decided to stop by Hoodoo to see what the snow was like. We were shocked to see the parking lot as a big lake. I have to admit we were all pretty worried about our ski trip and thought it might be a wasted time. We headed off to the Condo that we rented. It was sooo nice.

December 29th ~ Woke up to about 8" of snow in Sisters and about 18" of new snow at Hoodoo. We were ready to go. The kids took snowboarding lessons and the teacher find tuned their snowboards that they got for Christmas. We love the Snow!!! Unfortunately it was windy and they closed the lifts at 4:00.

December 30th ~ This was the most perfect day to ski. Hoodoo rated ot a 9. The slopes were groomed, the sky was blue and temperature was great. It was warm enough that a light jacket would have been warm enough. This was our long day on the mountain. I braved a private lesson and took the Manzinita up and took on the Over-easy trail. I thought I was well prepared but my confidence was shattered. I have not been cutting enough on my pizza but keeping it flat (that of course was so I could go faster on the beginner slope). So my teacher said to practice on the cutting and then maybe another lesson the following day. I have to admit I am getting a little bord with the kiddy slope. The kids do great. They go up with Mark and for the harder slopes. By the time night skiing came around the kids were getting a little daring I was getting a little tired and feeling some muscles I havent felt before. FUN!!

December 31st, New Years Eve ~ I didn't want to getup and go too early since we were planning another long day. Unfortunately, we should have. It was a blistery day only rated a 4. I was too sore to ski but was willing to go then Mark thought we should go. He was having a hard time. So if I knew he was having a hard time it must be pretty bad, he'll ski through almost anything.
We headed to the Condo for snacks. I was glad we didn't make it a long day. We were all pooped. Grandma Barkley bought a surprise hats and noise makers. Mark and I insisted we celebrate early (9:00pm) We are such party poopers. MJ, Emily and Grandma stayed up past midnight ~ those party animals!!

January 1st, 2009 ~ Happy New Year!!! ~ Woke up to strong winds so we headed out as quickly as we could. The wind, rain and warmth brought lots of water on the roads But we made it over the river and through the woods to Grandmothers house again. We Loaded quickly and off to go home. Luckily the roads were clear with ice and snow but not with water.

January 2nd ~ Today, took some pictures of the kids by the tree. I can't wait to see how they turned out. We went to see a movie Valkyrie. We all liked it and put a new perspective on the Germans. Not all of them wanted to follow Hitler.

January 3rd & 4th ~ 2 Lazy Days. I took my Christmas tree down and put all the Christmas stuff away till next year. Sunday went to chruch and bore my Testimony for the first time in a very long time. I wanted my kids to know that I do believe in the Savior Jesus Christ and that I was proud of them for giving of their time on Christmas. I look forward to more service this year and hope it will be a good year for all.

January 5th ~ Finished Cleaning house.

January 6th ~ Went back to work, YEAH!! Its only taken me 2 days to get caught up.

I am excited for the new year and look forward to settling into the house, we still have alot of work to do. The landscaping is our main project this year. I have some great ideas.

Hope everyone had a great Holiday Season!!

Kaleidoscope in Motion...A Holiday Spectacular....

Saturday, December 20th, Emily had a big performance at the Toyota Center in front of about 2000 people. It featured several of the area groups such as, The Mid-Columbia Ballet, Tri-Cities US Figure skating club, Tri-Cities Amature Hockey Association - USA Hockey Assoc Skills Development program, Miss Tri-Cities & AnDaire Acadamy of Irish dancing. Each group performed several festive performances. Tt was fun to see all the different skills and ages perform. Emily loves Irish Dancing ALOT!! We are blessed to have so many prograns available in the Tri-Cities. A great place for kids!!